If my vendors won't give me any money back, should I just go ahead with the wedding?

If my vendors won't give me any money back, should I just go ahead with the wedding?

Absolutely not. You definitely shouldn't put your family and friends through any form of activity such as a wedding or a rehearsal dinner, or a bridal shower even, if you are really thinking that you are not going to go through with the wedding. You're putting everyone through an emotional journey. If you decide that you are going to kind of one day be really happy and then the next day say, "You know? I really wasn't happy. I was kind of pretending. And I'm going to cancel."