What vendors should I call first if I cancel my wedding?
You need to call all of your vendors at the same time. So, realistically, the day you decide to cancel your wedding, that day you need to contact everyone. So there's two things you need to do. You need to contact your vendor via phone and let them know that you are cancelling and that you would like a cancelled contract to be mailed or faxed to you. Realistically it should be mailed; you should have the original signature on it. And then you need to send them a letter in writing saying 'we are cancelling our event and we would like our deposit back or whatever we can get back' and then also a contract stating: 'Event has been cancelled' with the vendors signature.