What should I tell my guests if I cancel a destination wedding?

What should I tell my guests if I cancel a destination wedding?

If you decide that you're cancelling a wedding and all of your guests have purchased plane tickets to Hawaii, encourage them to go. Encourage them to use it as a vacation and definitely try to take off the stigma of "this was going to be my wedding weekend, but now you're just having a nice vacation." It's definitely fine, especially if you can't cancel it - you've probably already will have taken the time off work, you've probably already booked a babysitter, gotten your dog kenneled, whatever it is that is going to be done. So, enjoy the trip!