What's the most gracious way to let our guests know that our wedding has been cancelled?
The most gracious way is for someone who is a family member or a close friend that the people will know; for them to call and give that verbal, "We're sorry but the couple is canceling their wedding and we would like to know obviously if we can help financially of plane tickets that cannot be cancelable", and things like that because everyone books on Expedia and these search engines and unfortunately a lot of these you cannot cancel and you also can't get a refund, you can't do anything so if you have someone coming out of country, if you have someone who has invested quite a bit of money, it is appropriate if you have the financing to say "How can I help? How can I help lift that burden since it is something that we're canceling?"