Who should I have help me with the details of canceling my wedding plans?
Whoever you feel most comfortable with. I think most clients would feel most comfortable with a parent, just because parents have a lot more experience dealing with contracts and with things like large sums of money, and often parents are the ones who are paying for the wedding. But definitely a close, you know, your closest friend; maybe your maid of honor; your best man; a sibling; a relative; whoever it is that you really feel the most comfortable with. That person is going to need to do a lot of things to cancel the wedding; and it needs to be someone that is very detail-oriented, and also someone that you know is very confidential, because realistically, you don't want to explain why you're canceling. And you want people to know that it's none of their business, and you want someone who can be really respectful and tactful to get the job done.