What are some bad reasons for getting divorced?

What are some bad reasons for getting divorced?

The worst reason to get divorced is because you're bored. Many people get bored and they want something exciting, and that's why they have affairs, and that's why they decide that the way they're going to repair their marriage is to hire an amateur therapist. An amateur therapist is another man or other woman to have an affair with. That person is going to make them feel temporarily better. That is absolutely one of the worst things that someone can do, because it gives you no good information about what's really wrong with your marriage, but rather just shifts your focus to something else and distracts you from working on your marriage, or working with that partner to get your needs met. You start splitting your needs off between your partner and this other person and so you don't give anybody a fair chance to actually meet those basic needs.