What if I'm afraid to divorce?
Everybody's afraid to divorce. It's overwhelming and it is all-encompassing. There are fears of rejection by family. There are fears of failure. There are fears that you will be chastised by a social group, that people will look down upon you, that you have failed, even if it's not your fault. It's very scary to think about ending a marriage, because usually what happens is you will concentrate more about what other people think than what you actually think about it. You will sacrifice your own needs for what other people may perceive about you, when in truth, they do not care as much as you think they do.