What should I expect out of a new marriage?

What should I expect out of a new marriage?

If you're recently married and you think you want a divorce, you have to look at what your expectations were for this marriage. I think at that point, it's really important to get into some good marital counseling to look at whether your needs are realistic and reasonable. Find out whether or not you are, on some level, telling your wife that you made this mistake, that you really don't want to be in a marriage contract or partnership. It's important to sort it out. "Did marriage not meet my expectations, or do I just not want to be in a marriage at all? I don't want anyone to control me." All marriage has a certain amount of control in it and interdependence, and often people do not expect that and are not prepared for it.