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How Can I Tell If He Is Attracted To Me?

Here is a short guide on how to tell if he is attracted to you. Judi James, body language expert and author of 'Sex Signals', shows you how to decode these signals and get ahead in the dating game. Find out if he is attracted to you with our great tips!


Step 1:

The first glance

When your eyes meet, he should hold your eyes longer than the normal social space. He might look away, but then he'll look back quite quickly which shows that he is definitely interested.

Step 2:

The suppressed smile

When he sees someone he fancies, he can't help but smile, it's part of the attraction process. He will try and suppress that smile, which usually means he finds you very interesting.

Step 3:

Ownership gestures

If he wants your time and attention, he will want to single you out and separate you from the rest of the room. So expect to see things like him standing in front of you so other people can't see you, or him resting an arm over the back of your chair.

Step 4:

Animal signals

An alpha male will puff his chest out to look stronger when trying to impress a mate, therefore he might realign his posture slightly and widen his shoulders a bit when talking to you, showing he can take care of you if necessary.

Step 5:

Look at his eyes

He should look you straight in the eye when you are talking, showing his active listening signals. But his eyes will move down to your mouth and back up again, and this means he is probably thinking about kissing you.

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Cookies  (3 days ago)

Haha cute :) This is soo interesting!!! I have noticed these signs before! cute! I love videooJug ;)

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Anonymous  (11 days ago)

aw that was cute, and the smile thing just melted my heart....and i just realized i know a guy who does that around me all the time lol

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Anonymous  (13 days ago)

As a male myself, I reconise two aspects of this clip. One is the half smile (I do this all the time and feel stupid for doing so... it's nice to know it's not just me). Second is the glancing at the lips. Sometimes I genuinely fear I might loses track of my sense and just go for the kiss (like in the movies). I'd probably get slapped round the face!!! As it happens I'm a nervous type, prone to putting my foot in my mouth so any female interest that comes my way soon retreats..... Oh well

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Anonymous  (13 days ago)

my boss always looks at my mouth when he is talking to me- I'm always blushed & don't know what to do- we are both married. Please help.

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Anonymous  (16 days ago)

i think some of this works but half of it dosent sound what a normal guy would do

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Anonymous  (21 days ago)

look down at her...mouth.... yea thats what hes doing... sorry girls, but guys aren't giddy like this. If you find one that is, you might want to go in the other direction.

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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful Anonymous  (35 days ago)

Awwww, this is such a cute video! I love the whole protection thing! And that suppressed smile, HILARIOUS but oh so sweet!

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nobodyinthisworld122  (35 days ago)

Hahaha he normally looks away like that when I start the staring game. But not if he was the one who caught my eyes first.

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Anonymous  (36 days ago)

This video is funny

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the man man  (44 days ago)

well thats nice

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Anonymous  (49 days ago)

oww i have experienced this many times from many different guys but noone dated me..... :(

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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful Anonymous  (50 days ago)

real useful, now i kno tht this gorj boy likes me

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Anonymous  (50 days ago)

....wow lmao

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Anonymous  (54 days ago)

There's this guy... He's a senior and I'm a sophomore in high school, so he's about to leave for college. I can't help but like him. He's everything that I've been looking for and wanting. What am I supposed to do? I only see him every once in a while, and we never talk. Except for an occassional "Hey", but that's it.

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Anonymous  (60 days ago)

hey anonymous from 14 days ago! i really think you should stop being an idiot and ask her - i'm like that, and just because i'm smart doesnt mean that all i care about in the world is school. I'm sure that if she likes you she'll go out with you! so just do it - girls are much more complicated than they seem, especially the intelligent type. good luck!!

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