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How Can I Tell If She Is Attracted To Me?

This short film, with Judi James our body language expert, shows you how to decode these signals and get ahead in the dating game. Try it out, see if she is attracted to you, and good luck!


Step 1:

The first glance

This is the most vital part of the process. If a woman likes you, expect her to hold eye contact for a few seconds longer than normal. If she finds you attractive, she will look away and then look back. If she then smiles, she probably fancies you.

Step 2:

Sub-conscious mirroring

When she starts to slightly copy your body movements and pace through sub-conscious mirroring, it usually means there is a degree of empathy there.

Step 3:

Change in posture

Most women have a screen saver pose, but when she sees someone she fancies, she will arch her back slightly as it creates a better body shape, making her automatically more attractive to members of the opposite sex.

Step 4:

Self-grooming gestures

These self checks will take place when she sees someone attractive. Therefore small, checking movements signal a degree of attraction.

Step 5:

Face softening

Normally women can look a bit angry or fed up without realising it. Yet when they see someone they fancy, their face softens and they look much more attractive. It is an animal signal of attraction, making her seem immediately more beautiful.

Step 6:

Touching

She will not just touch herself, but she'll touch you too in subtle ways whilst you are in conversation. This signals to other women that you are taken.
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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful HiSammy  (3 days ago)

Mabye she thinks your a lonely loser! And is just trying to cheer you up!...

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NickMan  (10 days ago)

so there is this person, and she often tries to sit by me, for instance once I sat by a group of people and once most of them left she decided to come sit a seat away frm me. whats that mean if it means anything?

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7 out of 13 people found this comment helpful ninjaman  (25 days ago)

Hahaha u people are soo funny hahaha...that blonde looked like a sheep dog

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3 out of 5 people found this comment helpful sylarna  (35 days ago)

Most of this is true, I do this (lately more consciously) a lot while talking to someone I fancy. The back arching thing I particularly recognise. Confident women pay attention to their stance when talking to men they find attractive. Pay attention to the way a girl holds herself when talking to a guy, it's most reveiling. When I don't fancy someone, I don't mirror and I don't let myself be dominated stance-wise. ...Gee, I've only realised that (now that I'm writing about it...)

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Anonymous  (36 days ago)

A gyal did dat 2 mi twice but STill wnt go our wit mi lmao xx

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1 out of 9 people found this comment helpful evansorodds  (40 days ago)

those chicks were ugly

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0 out of 5 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (43 days ago)

I already know this...

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3 out of 9 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (45 days ago)

OMG........IF I SAW HER......I WOULD RUN

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5 out of 9 people found this comment helpful nandun5  (49 days ago)

man these women need to brush their teeth!

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3 out of 4 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (54 days ago)

I think that that women is pretty buetiful. Remember though: What you see in the ones you are atracted to, is yourself. Look it up--there has been several scientific proofs of this!

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5 out of 23 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (56 days ago)

Man, that chick was ugly.

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6 out of 6 people found this comment helpful Alek2B  (61 days ago)

From what I know about female behaviour their bodily communication depends very much on self-confidence.Less confident women would not use such explicit signs of being atracted to a man simply for the fear of rejection or not coping with a man invited to an intimate interaction later on (cause everybody knows that men want sex and this can lead to problems if things aren't done carefully).

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3 out of 3 people found this comment helpful UbuntuDude  (66 days ago)

Wow... That blow up my mind.

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5 out of 5 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (72 days ago)

How come none of these things ever happen to me?

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3 out of 10 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (77 days ago)

Girls act this way all the time around me.....scary....kinda..

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