How To Address A Wedding Invitation To A Female Military Officer

Step 1: You Will Need

Step 2: Determine The Status Of Your Guest

What is the status of your guests? Are they married? If so, do they live together? Are they medical doctors or have PhDs? Are they in the military? It is essential you know the answers to these questions.

Step 3: Determine The Outer Envelope Address

OK, they are not married and they do live together. She is an officer in the military. She is active, but that makes no difference as the address is the same as if she were retired. On the outer envelope, that's the one the postman will see, you will address their names on two lines. On line one, you will address it "Lieutenant", her first name, and her last name. On line two, you will address it "Mr.", his first name, and his last name.

And remember, no matter how nicely addressed and pretty the invitation is, it will not get there if you send it to the wrong address…so always make sure you have the right address!

Step 4: Determine The Inner Envelope Address

Now it's time to address the inner envelope which holds the actual wedding invitation. You will again address their names on two lines. On line one, you will address it "Lieutenant" and her last name. On line two, you will address it "Mr." and his last name.

Step 5: Take The List To Your Calligrapher To Print

When you have finished with your address list all you have left to do is give it to your calligrapher to address the envelopes.

If the cost of hand calligraphy is an issue, keep in mind that many stationery shops offer machine calligraphy which looks very similar to hand calligraphy, but costs much less.