How To Ask A Girl For Her Number

Trying to get a girl's number can be nerve-racking at best. Follow these tips and your odds will increase on her giving it to you. Enlarge

How To Ask A Girl For Her Number

Trying to get a girl's number can be nerve-racking at best. Follow these tips and your odds will increase on her giving it to you.

Today, I'm going to share some ways on how to ask a girl for her number. The number 1 thing to remember is that if you ask a girl for her number too soon, she's not going to give it to you. So, you really need to make sure that you've got some rapport and also that girl is interested in some way.

So, this could be by getting eye contact and it could also be by smiling and seeing if the girl smiles back. Now, if you do get that rapport, then think about as you're building rapport by talking to that girl. So, a great way to open up a conversation is with a compliment followed by a question.

So, you might meet a girl in a bar and say something like, “I really like your dress. Where did you get that from?” This opens up the conversation and also shows that you're interested in the girl. Not just for her number, but for herself.

Show interest in the girl you are talking to. So, you're not just going straight for the number. You're actually listening to her and picking up on what she's saying.

So, for example, she might talk about the music that she likes and you can share your like of that music, too. A winning smile is always a good way to actually make someone feel comfortable. And, also, make them like you.

So, no cheesy smiles please, but a nice warm smile that's genuine will warm that girl to you. Something which girls always like is some chivalry. This could be that you find a bar stool for the girl to sit on.

It could be that you open a door for her. It could be that you help her with her jacket as it gets cold. This will build rapport and also respect for you to later get her number.

When you're asking a girl for her number, you may think and fear that rejection. She's not going to give it to me. This is something you actually have to take on board, that you may get rejected, but if you ask 10 girls for their number and then the eleventh girl gives it to you, then it's all worthwhile.

The other thing to remember is that you really need to have belief in yourself when you're asking a girl for her number. You need to believe that it's actually worth that girl. That it's worth her giving you her number.

Lastly, if you're really struggling to get her number, think of a reason to get her number. So, it may have been that you're in the conversation you've had. You've talked about your love of Japanese food.

So, you might say something like, have you ever been to Japanese restaurant in X street? I'd love to take you there. I'd love to introduce you to it. Could I have your number so that we could go there some time? So, if you follow these steps on how to ask a girl for her number, you're actually much more likely to get her number. .