How To Ask A Man On A Date
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How To Ask A Man On A Date
How to ask a man out on a date: VideoJug presents a foolproof guide to asking a man out. If you have always had problems with asking an attractive man on a date, worry no more! Just watch VideoJug's guide to asking a man out on a date. From timing to body language, VideoJug has all the tips on asking out a man on a date.
Step 1: The key
The key to getting a man to say yes to a date if to make yourself interesting and fun to be with. Take the pressure off by forgetting about the whole 'dating' aspect, you just want to spend a little time with him to see if something develops. You are not suggesting going shopping for matching rings. Think positively, be confident, and let your natural charm and personality shine through.
Step 2: Prepare
Ditch the line "Will you go out with me?" from your vocabulary. It sounds desperate and high school. Get used to saying something far less pressured such as 'Maybe we could go for a drink sometime?' This is casual and mature, not an ultimatum.
Take time to ensure you are looking your best. If you look good, you'll also feel good and project confidence.
Step 3: Find the right time
Wherever possible ask the object of your affections out in person. This lets him to see what a great person you are and also allows you to read his signals.
If orchestrating a face to face meeting proves difficult, then pick up the phone. This is a good second option but doesn't let the conversation flow as naturally.
Avoid asking someone out by text or email. This is impersonal and doesn't allow you to see his reaction.
Step 4: Get the conversation going
Approach your fella with an smile and cheery greeting. If you have only met a couple of times before remind him of your name and your last meeting. Use this as the launch point for a conversation, naturally moving on to other topics and interests. Remember that nothing is so flattering as someone wanting to know all about you, so ask lots of questions and remember to listen to the answers. Be amusing without going over the top,
Step 5: Body language
Eye contact is crucial, it's shows you are interested and lets you gauge his reaction. If he returns your gaze, you are on to a winner, but is he avoids it, he's not that keen. Keep you body language open and don't be afraid to touch his arm to emphasis a point.
Step 6: Drop in the line
Once the conversation is flowing drop in the line….."Do you think we could meet for a drink sometime?"
Step 7: If he says Yes
Nice work. Follow up his acceptance with a suggested location and time. Seal the deal by exchanging numbers.
Step 8: If he say No
No harm done, carry on the conversation. Don't take it personally or bear a grudge, it just wasn't meant to be. You never know, your confidence and attitude may make him regret his decision.
Step 9: If he is non committal
This is an initial rejection but he doesn't want to harm your feelings. Carry on as before, and give him your number to keep the option open.
Step 10: Move on
Well Done. Whether you secured a date or not you should be proud of yourself. If you were turned down, don't worry, you just aren't his type, but you probably made his day. Its always better to give it a shot than spend your life thinking 'what if...?'
If he said yes, excellent! Check out VideoJugshttp://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-prepare-for-a-date to make sure the next stage goes as smoothly.
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Tips & Comments
Guys love it when woman ask them out ,.... they know they're in ! :D
just muster up the courage, and do it. althought some people think it is unconventional, in 21st century it is quite common for girl to ask a guy out, so dont worry! please check out my blog - http://lifeandlove.info/dating
it's perfectly acceptable in 2009 for women to ask men out , and perfectly acceptable for women to ask from a man his phone number . nowdays women work , pay equal in the first date , ask men out on dates and even propose to men. my wife proposed to me in a special dinner. i was so happy about it. what i want to say is that us boys , guys and men loves when girls , gals and women asks us out. it's flattering , sexy and beautiful at the same time.
i agree john
Good basic video. I need help with how to carry on when you're a special needs person. I look "normal" but in fact have Asperger's Syndrome. It's easy for me to miss intimacy cues or to misread body language. My body is hard wired differently, so flirting is a nightmare with a man to whom I'm attracted. I am extremely sensitive and gravitate to risk-avoidant behavior. It takes me MONTHS to feel safe enough to let a man know I'm interested through casual touch. My life is a lot like 50 First Dates, as each time I meet the man I like, it feels like the first time...for me. He just thinks I'm weird. Once I do feel safe, I'm hardwired to be intense and utterly candid. Chit-chat is a nightmare, as is joking casual banter. Yet I am an attractive, fun-loving and loving woman who can size up a worthwhile guy in 30 seconds or less. I do not need a lot of time to know when someone will be a good fit. The Asperger's heightens intuition, and I often know how a person feels before they become conscious or expressive of how they feel. Time is a challenge, because it's go....stop......go.....stop...and trusting in continuity of contact is extremely difficult. If anyone has any insights or other resources, I'd be so grateful. I had a loving relationship with a fantastic man, but he died and it's been so hard to make room for someone new with my issues. Thanks!
Ladies trust me on this. Guys love when you give them a playful tug, or shove. It shows your intrest. We are intrested in people who are intrested in us.
Haha! Her text says: Please please go out with me. I'm really cool. Really, I'm better than...
I asked a couple of guys out and they freaked, wondering what was wrong with me like I was a psycho who couldn't get a normal guy. got to know one much later and he admitted that because i was in his opinion a bit out of his league he assumed i was after his wallet. If a pretty girl makes the first move enjoy it.
lol it worked for me too! although i did it a little differently... was at the movies adn guy was leaving so i wen tup to him and said 'hey if your single and ever want to go out sometime facebook me' - thanks guys for posting that u like when a girl asks - gave me confidence, and really girls what do u have to lose? either u hear from him, and if not u wont regret not doing it - so its really a win win. :) gl girls and go for it
I was talking with 5 guys at the same time. It was just a friendly conversations, but sometimes guys take it very seriously so all of them asked me out few days ago. But one guy I talk to he didn`t ask me out yet, he is shy but I know that he likes me. And I didn`t what to do. Should I accept other guy`s words or ask that guy out. And it happened very fast. I talked to that guy and said would you go out with me? lol He said I would love to.