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How To Ask A Man On A Date

How to ask a man out on a date: VideoJug presents a foolproof guide to asking a man out. If you have always had problems with asking an attractive man on a date, worry no more! Just watch VideoJug's guide to asking a man out on a date. From timing to body language, VideoJug has all the tips on asking out a man on a date.


Step 1:

The key

The key to getting a man to say yes to a date if to make yourself interesting and fun to be with. Take the pressure off by forgetting about the whole 'dating' aspect, you just want to spend a little time with him to see if something develops. You are not suggesting going shopping for matching rings. Think positively, be confident, and let your natural charm and personality shine through.

Step 2:

Prepare

Ditch the line "Will you go out with me?" from your vocabulary. It sounds desperate and high school. Get used to saying something far less pressured such as 'Maybe we could go for a drink sometime?' This is casual and mature, not an ultimatum.

Take time to ensure you are looking your best. If you look good, you'll also feel good and project confidence.

Step 3:

Find the right time

Wherever possible ask the object of your affections out in person. This lets him to see what a great person you are and also allows you to read his signals.

If orchestrating a face to face meeting proves difficult, then pick up the phone. This is a good second option but doesn't let the conversation flow as naturally.

Avoid asking someone out by text or email. This is impersonal and doesn't allow you to see his reaction.

Step 4:

Get the conversation going

Approach your fella with an smile and cheery greeting. If you have only met a couple of times before remind him of your name and your last meeting. Use this as the launch point for a conversation, naturally moving on to other topics and interests. Remember that nothing is so flattering as someone wanting to know all about you, so ask lots of questions and remember to listen to the answers. Be amusing without going over the top,

Step 5:

Body language

Eye contact is crucial, it's shows you are interested and lets you gauge his reaction. If he returns your gaze, you are on to a winner, but is he avoids it, he's not that keen. Keep you body language open and don't be afraid to touch his arm to emphasis a point.

Step 6:

Drop in the line

Once the conversation is flowing drop in the line….."Do you think we could meet for a drink sometime?"

Step 7:

If he says Yes

Nice work. Follow up his acceptance with a suggested location and time. Seal the deal by exchanging numbers.

Step 8:

If he say No

No harm done, carry on the conversation. Don't take it personally or bear a grudge, it just wasn't meant to be. You never know, your confidence and attitude may make him regret his decision.

Step 9:

If he is non committal

This is an initial rejection but he doesn't want to harm your feelings. Carry on as before, and give him your number to keep the option open.

Step 10:

Move on

Well Done. Whether you secured a date or not you should be proud of yourself. If you were turned down, don't worry, you just aren't his type, but you probably made his day. Its always better to give it a shot than spend your life thinking 'what if...?'

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Jacqueline2365  (45 days ago)

lol it worked for me too! although i did it a little differently... was at the movies adn guy was leaving so i wen tup to him and said 'hey if your single and ever want to go out sometime facebook me' - thanks guys for posting that u like when a girl asks - gave me confidence, and really girls what do u have to lose? either u hear from him, and if not u wont regret not doing it - so its really a win win. :) gl girls and go for it

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Anonymous  (50 days ago)

I was talking with 5 guys at the same time. It was just a friendly conversations, but sometimes guys take it very seriously so all of them asked me out few days ago. But one guy I talk to he didn`t ask me out yet, he is shy but I know that he likes me. And I didn`t what to do. Should I accept other guy`s words or ask that guy out. And it happened very fast. I talked to that guy and said would you go out with me? lol He said I would love to.

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Anonymous  (81 days ago)

Asking a man out isn't a big deal. Gentle or shy, a man should look a woman in the eye. Even the gentlest of men can do it. It just shows he's assertive enough to get things done when push comes to shove. Never forget that confidense is always a winner.

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Anonymous  (95 days ago)

i don't know about anybody else but i find that when women ask me out i find it to be a turn on plus it tells me that she knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go and get it

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3 out of 3 people found this comment helpful Binak_Algo  (118 days ago)

I like brave women, and I love when a cute girl asks me out, even if she screws it and even if she is not very pretty, I generally say yes, because I should try out with a brave girl. I guess there are another men like me, so, please girls don't be afraid or you could miss a great guy.

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0 out of 10 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (121 days ago)

men should always do the asking tbh

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4 out of 4 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (125 days ago)

Not making eye contact doesn't always mean disinterest, some guys (particularly those of us who are shy or have gentle personalities) won't make eye contact and may still be very interested.

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2 out of 3 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (128 days ago)

I agree with the last comment. Reading these comments makes me sad about our world today. What's wrong with a confident woman asking a man out? Sometimes men don't realize how amazing a woman, how a woman feels about or are even shy themselves. You people are honestly sad.

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2 out of 3 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (146 days ago)

some of these comments are shocking - we live in the 21st century, and most women don't have time to hang around and um and ah waiting for a bloke to ask them out - you only come across as desparate if you are desparate - all of the stuff in the video is pretty obvious, since when was asking a guy out so difficult you need a 10-step video to show you how it's done?!

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3 out of 4 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (159 days ago)

Im a girl and i like it when a guy askes me out its so cute. Girls never ask guys out coz we like to play hard to get :P

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4 out of 8 people found this comment helpful john219  (163 days ago)

a man should always ask the woman out

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2 out of 4 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (165 days ago)

I still wouldn't ask a guy out. If I really like a guy I usually just play with his mind and give him signals to the point where he asks me out lol. It works!

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2 out of 10 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (167 days ago)

Only ugly girls, or the really outgoing ones would ask a guy out! Certainly not any of the calibre of the girl in that video!!

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6 out of 6 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (278 days ago)

wooooooow am a bloke and i think that the confident bloke is a rare breed ....its soo much relieveing to have a woman ask you out for a change do it seriosuly

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3 out of 4 people found this comment helpful hellothere  (280 days ago)

"PLEASE GO OUT WITH ME. I'M REALLY COOL. *....LOL WTF ! LMAO

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