How To Attract Boys

Sometimes, you find people who have put so much effort into their external appearance that once they've got past that you know, do you like me, shall we go for a drink, there's not much else going on and it can come to a point where it fizzles out after one or two dates. So if you see the whole art of attraction as a long term thing, then, yes, it's really important first of all to make sure you look attractive. Now, looking attractive, I mean, that's quite a wide definition.

Looking attractive basically means are you going out into the world looking your best. I'm not expecting you to go and have some kind of surgery and look a certain type and have to dye your hair a certain type. People attract to all different types of things so it's really, are you looking your best? Even if you are going shopping in a supermarket, you're going to pick something up from your local news agent, you don't know when you're going to bump into that guy you're really attracted to, so make sure you are always looking your best or, say, you want to work on being authentically confident.

A guy likes a girl who is confortable in her skin, who doesn't mind having a laugh, has got a smile has that really sort of bubbly positive nature about her. So even if you've had a bad day or you're had a miserable week, having a long face can actually detract and take away from your chance of attracting a boy. Boys actually like girls that are confident and who are themselves.

Make sure you're not just hanging around the same group of friends. If there's a boy that you really like, get to know some of his friends. It can give you a lot of inside information and I know that a lot of times now that you're chatting on, whether it's Facebook, through texting, talking to your friend and getting him to pass on a message, but what I say is get to know some of his friends as well because it can really, really help you if you like a boy and you know his mates and his mates think that you're quite cool and good fun to hang out with, then actually, you'll be scoring some points for the boy you're really interested in.

And last but not least, don't just narrow it down to one boy. Don't get so fixated on one boy that you become so obsessed that you don't see anyone else around you. There are lots of great boys out there who'll find you attractive and if you give them a chance, you'll actually get to know them and find them attractive too.

So make sure you're paying attention to everything that's going on. So, my three top tips are: first of all, be yourself. There are lots of people out there who'll find you attractive, so just be yourself and learn to be really comfortable in your skin.

The second tip will be, make sure you put an effort into the way you look, not over the top, you know there has to be something in alignment and congruent with who you are as a person but, you know, if you're attracted to a specific boy and you know that they like girls who dress a certain way or behave a certain way, then make sure you're being your best. And the third thing is try to get to know his friends, don't just stay in your group, expand your social circle, get to know more people who know this boy you're attracted to and that's how to attract boys. So if you would like anymore advice on this subject, then please feel free to visit www dot thelifechef dot com and sign up for one of our free thirty-minute taster sessions.

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