How To Be A Better Kisser
Relationships, love, and romance are all things that are lovely yet mysterious to most. This video talks about a few simple tips to improve your kissing technique and make that special moment even more memorable.
I'm going to teach you how to have the perfect kiss. First of all, make sure your lips are kissable. This is especially for the guys.
Guys, you're out there playing sports, you're out there playing rugby, out there in the wind, and a lot of guys have really chapped, nasty lips. They've got little cracks in there; they've got a little dry skin. Invest in a lip salve.
The number one thing that girls will look at in a guy is your hair, your nails, they'll look at the little touches, and your lips are absolutely part of that. Match the person's stance. So much of attraction is about symmetry.
How you hold yourself, how you match the other person. Make sure your body is mirroring her behavior. If she's leaning in, you lean in.
If she has your shoulders back, you have your shoulders back. Make sure your body and your legs, your lower half especially, is pointing the same way and matching her frame. If you're a guy, absolutely take the lead.
It might be terrifying to lean in and kiss a girl for the first time. You'll be thinking, “What if she rejects me? What if she doesn't want to kiss me”? You have to ban all those negatives. No one ever got a kiss who didn't try.
No one ever got to kiss a girl who didn't take the gamble and lean in. Ban all those negatives, take the lead. If you stand together, put your arm on her shoulder, or on the side of her arm.
If you sat down, and you sat quite close to each other, trying putting your hand on the front of her forearm, or on her wrist. If she accepts this touch, it's quite likely that she'll let you kiss her. With the actual kiss, make sure you take your time.
In all the cinema blockbusters, in all the cool soaps, they always kiss with such passion. They always grab each other and they're sucking face straight away. You don't have to do that to have the perfect kiss.
What you can do is you just lean in quite slowly, feel your way into the kiss. You won't get any nasty clashing of teeth, or any banging heads or anything like that. When your lips touch, just go softly with the lips to start with.
It's all about softness and taking your time. Make sure you don't use too much force with the kiss. 90% of kissing is all about what you do with your lips.
It's not based on what you do with your jaw, so avoid using any kind of biting action. You're not trying to chew up their head; you're just trying to place a gentle kiss on their face. Keep your face really relaxed.
You should have all your jaw relaxed. You should have all your facial muscles relaxed. Kissing isn't just about what you do with your mouth.
It's also about how you hold the person or what you do with your hands. When you're kissing somebody, put your hands against the side of their face. If you're a boy kissing a girl, move her hair gently out of her face so it's away from your kiss.
If you're a girl kissing a guy, put your hands lightly on his face. This will feel really intimate and really nice. If you're worried about how to touch them, touch your face lightly.
If it feels tickly, and slightly enjoyable, that's exactly how you should be touching the other person. That was just a bit of info on how to be a better kisser. Relationships, love, and romance are all things that are lovely yet mysterious to most.
This video talks about a few simple tips to improve your kissing technique and make that special moment even more memorable.