How To Break Up With A Girl
How To Break Up With A Girl
The Life Chef talks about how to break up with a girlfriend in the nicest, cleanest way possible. She explains what to avoid and how to keep your reputation secure when dealing with future endeavors.
Hi. Today, I'm going to talk to you about how to break up with a girl. Now, breaking up with anyone is never easy and it's never pleasant, but hopefully with these tips, it'll make it a lot easier, and we'll try and avoid making it messy.
Now, first of all, if you know that you want to break up with someone, try and talk to them first, because it might be that your reasons for wanting to break up, they don't get it, they don't realize if they're doing something that irritates you or annoys you or you wish they were more like how they were when you first met them, so talk to them, talk to the girl first and see if there's any way where you can actually repair the relationship or move it forward. If you're certain after you've had a chat with them that you don't want to be with them, then find some quiet private space where you can actually tell them that you would like to break up. Make it very clear, try and give them some reasons why, in a nice way, because if you're breaking up with a girl and you just say "I want to break up, that's it," they always think, "What have I done wrong? Why is that? Is there someone else?” There will be questions with girls and sometimes, a lot of them.
If you're looking to break up with a girl, don't just say "just because". Make sure you give them the reason why, because the chances are they will have a lot of questions, and what you don't want to do is have lots of texts, or emails, or Facebook messages, saying why, what is it, is it because of someone else, is it because of this. So, you really want to try and make it as clean a break up as possible.
So, you've taken them somewhere quiet, you explained the reasons why you want to break up, do it in a way where you can try and stay friends if possible. Remember, the way you break up with this girl could affect your possibilities and your chances of dating other people either in the same school or the same college. So if they know that you've treated her nicely, even if she's upset that you've broken up, it hopefully won't damage your chances of maybe dating someone else that's within the same circle.
Try and see if you can repair it, if you can't, then as long as you follow those simple steps, then there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to break up with your girl quite simply. So if you'd like any more advice on this subject, then please feel free to visit www dot thelifechef dot com and sign up for one of our free 30-minute taster sessions. Thank you. .