How To Break Up With A Guy
Every girl at some point in their lives will probably face the situation where they have to break up with a guy they care about, watching this video can make it simple for you.
I am going to talk about how to break up with a guy, and there are 3 things to take into consideration. One is the time when you do it, two is the place, and three is that where you do it, so it is really important to think about the time when you break up with someone. Avoid doing it late at night when someone is then going to have trouble sleeping, think about whether someone is going to be really busy and preoccupied at work and whether doing it when at work is a good time. Also, think about if they have got anything important coming up, like exams or an important presentation or something that is really important to them and they need to be focused on. Secondly, the place. Now, even if you have been going out with someone for just a short amount of time, I always recommend not to do this by text, and the reason being is that so many people complain about actually being broken up with by text. If you have known someone for a few weeks, then you can break up with the guy on the phone, but I would say really think about, has my mobile got battery, am I going to be disturbed or am I going to have perceptions. So, make sure you go by time to actually break up on the phone. If you have been out with someone for a longer period of time, so up to a few months, I would say meet that person face to face. It is polite to actually think about meeting face to face and planning where you are going to be, so obviously you will want to be somewhere where there are no interruptions, somewhere that is quiet, somewhere that is neutral, so not in either one of your houses. The third thing is to think about how, the way that you actually break up with the guy, and 2 things I want to say - one is really think about doing it in an honest way and two is to actually think about giving that person some time to speak, let him then let off steam a bit. Now, in terms of being honest, there are lots of ways to break up. You might have heard someone say to you, “It’s not you, it’s me”. What they are saying is it’s you, not me, so think about a more honest way. It could be that you talk about the chemistry not being there this time, it could be that you talk about not being compatible, it could be that you talk about not sharing the same vision for the future. Secondly, even though that person may not be able to change your mind about breaking up with them, allow them some time to speak. Now, not all guys may need this, but some guys will and it means that actually they will have a chance to express how they are feeling and it would be easier for them to move on from that break up. So, 3 things to think about when you break up with a guy - one is the time when you do it, two is the place, and three is the way you do it. And that is how to break up with a guy.