How To Break Up With Your Girlfriend
How To Break Up With Your Girlfriend
Breaking up with your girlfriend can be a hard thing to do, but it doesn't have to be difficult. Make sure you know the reasons why you want to break up and explain why the relationship should stop and try to end the relationship in a good light.
This video is about how to break up with your girlfriend. I'm going to be teaching you the most pain-free way of doing the deed. First of all, be absolutely certain this is what you want to do.
In any relationship where you have rouse, you have low points, you have periods where you don't feel that you may love that person as much as you ought to, don't base your decision on a ration motion or after a big argument. Things may settle down in a week or two. Make sure this is absolutely what you want to do.
If you're really unsure, maybe talk it through with a friend or write down a list of things that you love about a person and things that you can't stand. Make sure you get the venue absolutely right. This might not seem like it matters at all when you breaking up with someone, but you absolutely owe it to her to make sure that is somewhere close by to her house or even better, at her house itself.
First of all, it's really unfair to break up with someone and then have them crying or really upset having to walk all the way home. Also, if you break up with someone in your own home, it's very difficult to get rid of them. It's very difficult when someone is very upset for you to say, “Look, you have to leave now”.
It's much easier to do the deed at her house because you can leave at a point where you feel you have said your peace and there is nothing more to say. Focus. Make your mind up what you're going to say.
Don't go around effect in angry and shouty and with a list of things that that person has done wrong. One, this isn't particularly fair, and two, the break up is going to be a disaster for both of you. You don't want to go around there feeling like you're going to have a huge rag.
Make a list of basic points, no more than four or five which say, “Look, I don't feel the same way as I did”. This isn't working for me. Keep your points basic and simple.
Don't make them really personally, because this is going to make the break up hard for you, not just the other person. If you want to break up with someone and make it as painless for you as possible, you have to get your body language right. When you arrive at their place or when you arrive at the meeting to do the breaking up, make sure your shoulders are back, make sure your stance is confident.
There is no good going in there and talking down to the floor. There is no good folding your arms and there is no good hunching yourself away from her. You have to make it absolutely sure.
Be assertive, be confident, have your a straight back, have your shoulders back and speak confident and clearly, demonstrating why you feel like the relationship don't work. In any break up, whether you see them on the TV, whether it's with your friends or you even see one in the street, people shout and people lose control, people get upset. You have to keep control of the situation.
If she raises her voice and she starts to shout at you, it's important that you don't shout back. The moment you start shouting is the moment that you lose control. She will be upset if she cares about you.
She will be upset if you are breaking up with her, but take control of the situation. Talk clearly, confidently and calmly. Keep to a list of key points that you have made and if they need repeating, repeat them.
Don't get to a point where you are screaming at each other. A big thing that people make a mistake with in their breaking up with someone is that they forget that they got mutual friends. They forget that they have got the same friends on Facebook, on Twitter and on all the other social networks.
And people soon find out if you've done something horrible or if you've done it in a really nasty way. You don't want to lose friends over this. You may be happy to lose her, but you don't want to lose her friends and you may even want to date one of her friends in the near future.
That was just some key points on how to break up with your girlfriend. .