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How To Date Several People At Once
One of the most difficult aspects of modern dating is figuring out at what point a relationship is expected to become “exclusive”. Take a lesson through dating history and find out how.
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Strength In Numbers
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From the '20s to the '50s, dating didn't demand sex; it was simple socializing. You could swap spit with Kim, Kari and Kassie without anyone thinking twice. After all, the more people you dated, the more likely you were to find "the one," settle down, and get exclusive. So don't be shy. Date many, and date often. When your dates see how popular you are, that makes you more of a catch. Just don't get too serious with any of them. Playing the field works best when you keep it light.
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All You Need Is Love
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The free love movement came in the '60s when bumpin' uglies was as common as losing a cell phone signal is today. A Friday night out didn't mean sippin' shakes anymore, it meant turning on, tuning in and dropping out. If you're sharing the sheets with more than one person, feelings can get hurt. Sex is intimate, and partners can get attached quickly. If they ask who else you're making whoopee with, you might have to confess, but keep the details for your diary.
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Safety First
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Free love was never really free. STDs and HIV in the mid-'80s meant sex could be dangerous, even deadly. Get educated and take responsibility. You owe it your partners to protect them and yourself. There are plenty of sexy and creative ways to do it now, even glow-in-the-dark-style, so no excuse, wrap it up!
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Girls Just Want To Have Fun
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Make no mistake, you will be judged. While he's called a Romeo, Casanova or just a gigolo, she'll be called far worse. Don't expect your partners not to tell. Everyone brags. It's your reputation; so don't go knocking the boots unless you're ready to be exposed. Be choosy and don't be ashamed. Enjoying a few at a time doesn't make you a slut.
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Playing Favorites
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When is the right time to commit to just one person? Some people say, "you'll just know", but we realize it's not that easy for others. Most can benefit from sticking to these guidelines. Don't even think about becoming exclusive until after four months of consistent dating. More importantly, realize that love takes time. Don't get trapped in the "fake marriage" of premature committed relationships. Enjoy playing the field for a while. And when you do meet that special someone that you love and trust, be honest and don't judge each other's past. Remember, practice makes perfect.
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