How To Dump A Guy
How To Dump A Guy
A life coach shares some tips for the ladies on how to dump a guy with due respect, so it will not scar the relationship and both of you can move on with peace of mind.
And now, some tips on how to dump a guy. The most important thing is to be absolutely sure that you want to dump a guy, playing with emotions will only scar a relationship. Once you are sure, it is important to do this in a way that is respectful, avoid e-mailing, phone text messaging, instant messaging.
If you are going to dump a guy, have the respect to do it face-to-face. Take the time to meet with him and explain to him, talk to him about why you are ending this relationship, why you are dumping him. Men are intelligent and sometimes, men would want to know why.
It helps us to deal with things, to rationalize when we have understood why a situation has occurred. It is also respectful to avoid blaming him, it is not about blame, if we chose not to be with somebody, it is because whatever reason, we do not feel right with them or we are not suited and it is okay to say that, just be careful not to point a finger, not to blame, not to make the other person wrong, so again, it is about being respectful. Take responsibility for how you feel for wanting to end this relationship for wanting to move on and be very clear about it.
Once he has listened to you, be very careful about not overdoing it. You do not need to talk endlessly, you do not need to say I am sorry repeatedly, just allow him to take it in, to let it sink in. Do not worry about filling the gaps.
If there is a silent pause, just let it be. If there is something he wants to say or if there is something he wants to ask you to understand, listen to him and respond with as much or as little detail you feel is appropriate according to the circumstances. And that is how to dump a guy. .