How To Flirt Online
How To Flirt Online
Sometimes, it's not so easy to chat with that special someone. Flirtatious expert Andy Jones divulges in the do's and don'ts of the online dating world.
I am going to teach you how to flirt online. First of all, make an effort with your appearance. Now, this is going to sound ridiculous, they can't see me if I'm talking to them online.
Unless it's something like Skype, they're not going to see what you're wearing. They're not going to see that you're wearing your pants or your jim-jams, or your floppy tracksuit. Make sure you make a bit of effort with your appearance because it'll make you feel better and more confident and you will feel better in yourself.
And this will project through how you talk to people online. First of all, have a good shower, do your hair, throw on a bit of a makeup if you're a girl or even if you're a boy. Throw on whatever you really like.
It will get you feeling good and feeling that you're attractive, and that's going to project the way you talk to people online. Next, make sure you do your research. Now, this is going to sound like you're a stalker or a bit of a psychopath, but there's nothing wrong, there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a look at someone's profile, especially if it's a dating profile or a social networking profile.
Every guy and every girl will have some kind of social networking profile on the internet where they tip at what music they like, what films they're into, who they went out last night, who their mutual friends are. People put this information on the internet so the whole world could read about them. If you're going to be flirting with someone online later, it's great to have an insight into what they like.
Don't write huge lists of everything that they've ever done because that's going to sound ridiculous, but just come up with a few key points about things they like: bands they like, acts they like, who they went out with, who their mutual friends are, different films that they like. What are their interests? Find out a little bit about them. Soon, it's going to help you later on when you talk to them.
The first thing that's going to happen when you talk to someone online is they're going to ask you obvious basic questions: "Hi, how are you?" "What did you do today?" "What have you been up to?" Make sure you've got fun, cool answers to these questions. It doesn't matter if you've been sitting around in your pants all day having a DVD marathon. It doesn't matter that you went shopping with your mom and dad.
You are going to come up with something that's funny and exciting. For instance, come up with a good, hypothetical question, "A friend of mine had this really cool problem, you know, this girl he likes." you know, or "This guy doesn't know whether to break up with his girlfriend." come up with a problem. Don't name names because that can get you into trouble, but just come up with a hypothetical problem that you can talk about, something exciting, something gossipy, something interesting.
Better still, maybe come up with something like, "One of my neighbors has just had a huge riot and the woman's throwing him out onto the pavement because he's been having an affair". Something exciting, something a bit salacious or, if you don't want to be too gossipy, "The house over the road is having a really cool, fancy dress party. Everyone's turned up in these ridiculous costumes.
Let me tell you what they're wearing." Come up with something that's going to bounce conversations around. It doesn't have to be anything that I've just listed. Come up with something that people are going to immediately have questions about.
Come up with something that people are going to say, "Oh wow! What happened there?" Flirting isn't about innuendo. It's not about making racy comments, or having a rapier wit. It's not about having loads of cool amazing things to say all the time or being able to get girls to talk about what underwear they're wearing.
It's about being playful. It's about being fun to be around.