How To Flirt With A Guy
How To Flirt With A Guy
Hey girls, have you ever had trouble flirting or you didn't know quite how to begin? Ask Andy Jones, he'll give you some important tips on posture, confidence, and conversation!
I'm going to teach you how to flirt with a guy, I'm going to teach you girls what guys like and how to get there attention. First thing, the number one thing people get wrong is their body language. It's impossible to flirt if you have your arms folded, if you're hunched up, if you're looking down.
Don't talk down into the floor, because people won't hear you and you won't be part of the conversation. If you're not part of the conversation, it's very often difficult to flirt. Make sure that you're clear, you're positive and that you can be heard.
Have confidence! Try to match their body language. Now, by this, I mean, try to match their posture. Don't copy everything that they do, but if they're leaning into you, you lean is as well.
If they are sat with their legs crossed, then maybe you cross your legs as well. Point your body so it matches their position. The most attractive thing, it's not racy, it doesn't involve you doing anything rude, is eye contact.
The number one attractive thing when you are talking to someone is eye contact. If you're finding it difficult to hold someone's gaze, especially if it's a guy you really fancy, because you are going to worry if you're blushing, you're going to stammer over your words. Practice eye contact with someone you don't even fancy.
Anybody, people in a store, people when you buy coffee, your mom's friends, your dad's friends, your brother, sister, whoever it is, practice keeping people's eye contact when you talk to them. When you talk to a guy that you really like, keep his gaze, hold his eye contact. This will make him know that you like him, that you are interested in him, and he'll be interested in you back.
Keep a big smile, unless he's talking about something really down beat, like his dog's died. Smile all the time, make him feel like he's funny, if a guy feels like he likes your company, he will talk to you more often, and he will have a positive impression of you. Also, use your lips.
Now, this might sound a bit strange, but guys look at girl's lips. Guys like girls that have got full lips. Use your lips when you talk, enunciate words.
Pout a little, be a bit flirtatious, be a bit cheeky, guys love this. When you're getting to know a guy, and you're getting on really well, start to initiate touch. Maybe touch the outside of his arm, maybe touch his wrist or his forearm.
Or if you're really flirting wildly, maybe try and touch his face. Compliment him, don't just say, "Oh my god, you're so hot", because that's a bit embarrassing, that's embarrassing for both of you, even though the guy will probably like it. Say, "You look really good in that shirt today".
"I really like those jeans you're wearing". "That goal you scored was fantastic, I heard all about it". "I really like what you've done with your hair".
Pick things that guys worry about in themselves. All guys worry about their hair, they worry about their appearance. Make him feel good by zoning in on a specific thing about himself that you like.
That was just a few key points on how to flirt with a guy. Have fun flirting! Hey girls, have you ever had trouble flirting or you didn't know quite how to begin? Ask Andy Jones, he'll give you some important tips on posture, confidence, and conversation!.