How To Get A Girls Number

I'm now going to talk to you about how to get a girl's number. Now, men who are good at getting a girls number don't make the number the whole girl. What they do is show real interest and attention to this girl, they find out what she's interested in, what she likes, what she wants, and then what they do - which is very subtle and very clever, but it's actually a good way of handling the situation - is they connect with her and say, “Look, I can find this piece of information out”, or if the girl does a certain job, they say, “Look, I have a friend who needs a coach or a massage therapist, could I take your number? I could pass your number on or I could find this information out for you, and perhaps I could ring you and take you for a drink”.

What you've done is say, “I like you, I'd like to know you more, I'm aware of what you like, what your interested in and I'd like to be a gracious person to you and alongside that, I'd like to know you more”. Have you noticed how good married people are at flirting? That's because they're married, so they're easy with being friendly to everybody. That's how you need to be.

You need to treat everyone as a friend, as a beloved. You need to treat it as a graceful easy thing to get a girl's number, so she's not going to be scared and you're not going to be scared of asking her. You're offering, you're giving of yourself.

You're letting her know that you are a loving, kind, trustworthy guy, and what you're doing is you're not making it all about the girl or you're not making it all about meeting her in a romantic sense. You're saying, “I want to know you more”, and if you communicate that, she'll know that and hey, she might give you her number. Who knows? Have a go, see.

Getting a girl's number can be the key to getting a date or starting a new relationship. In this video, love coach Cate Mackenzie will tell the secret to get a girl's number in a comfortable natural manner.