How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone
How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone
Be very careful with how you behave and act when you want to get out of the friend zone and when you are getting serious with a girl.
Today, I'm going to talk about how to get out of the friend zone. If you're in the friend zone, it means that you're a great companion, you're someone a girl likes to hang out with but you're not coming across the attractive. So, this is about how you can subtly come across as attractive.
The number one aphrodisiac for girls is confidence. If you're confident in who you are, confident in the way that you look, confident in what you do, you're going to come across as very attractive. Now, this isn't confidence point of arrogance, this is confidence where you believe in yourself but you don't have to boast too much about it.
Now, if you want to show that actually you are a bit different and you're not just a friend, do something to get yourself noticed and so that that girl sees you. So, it could be that you run a marathon, you win a competition, you do some voluntary work, you do something that really gets you noticed. In terms of being desirable, it can be something which makes you look different so you might lose weight or you could change your looks slightly going from a smart to more casual look or you could have a completely different wardrobe.
The second thing about being desirable is that should be desirable to the opposite gender. So, to do this, you really want to show that as one of your friend, you have people of the opposite gender around you. So, it could be that you have girls around you that are also friends.
When you want to step up, should be getting out of the friend zone, you need to do some physical things. So, one thing that can be really good to get out of the friend zone is to go on a non-date. Now, a non-date is different from a date because it's not the same as the traditional things you do like going for dinner.
It's something which doesn't feel so pressured. So, you might invite your friend out for coffee or you might do an activity together like going shopping or going to an exhibition. Now, once you've done this, you want to make it more obvious that you want to get out of the friend zone.
So, make sure you're flirting. Now, the number one reason why guys do stay in the friend zone is because girls are getting messages. So, flirt, make it actually conscious that you're flirting so compliment her.
Maybe say how nice her dress is but then maybe take that flirting a bit further as you build more trust. Make it sound a bit more risky. So, it could be something like, “I like the way that dress hugs your figure”.
Something which girls really want to see is that they want to see that man's side of you so you don't just come across as a friend. So, this could be taking control of situations, ordering when you go to a restaurant, doing all the chivalrous things like opening doors, opening the car door, making sure that her coat's on when you leave the restaurant. When you've done all of this and you've actually got some confidence, you've got some feedback, the girl's flirting back, she's noticing you, she's admiring your achievements, then it's the time to make your move.
Now, when I say make your move, I mean going for that kiss. Now, when you do your first kiss on the lips, you don't want to go over the top and be overly passionate but do a subtle kiss and it might be that you want to do the kiss with some words like, “I just want to kiss you” or “Could I kiss you?” So, this is how to get out of the friend zone. .