How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
You may need a lot of counselling and advice on how to get back with your ex and how to go step by step into doing this.
Now, I think there are really two parts into this you need to think about. The first thing is, do you really want your ex back? There's a reason why you've broken up and sometimes when you first break up with somebody, especially if you've spent a lot of time with them, you're going to feel a bit lost, empty, maybe as if a part of your life has ended. So I think rather than jumping back into the same problems and the same situation because you're feeling lonely, you really need to recognize and take some time out and think, “Why have we broken up? Why is he my ex”? Once you've done that, you've taken some time to reflect and you're still a 100 percent sure that you want to go back and get your ex-boyfriend back, now, I think you first of all need to address, seriously address the problems, what are the specific reasons you broke up and are there things that can be changed and worked on? Also, does your ex really want to have you back? You know, if your ex isn't even talking to you or taking any calls or doesn't want to be in the same room as you, it's going to be quite difficult to convince this person to get back into having a relationship with you.
So, I think you really need to have a look at the reasons why you broke up and also just to think that, you know, if the break up was quite messy, and there were lots of reasons that were involved into as to why he doesn't want to be with you, then I really, really think that you need look at, take on board, it could be a long process. First of all, I think try to arrange a meeting to get back with your ex or whether it's something very casual, not heavy. Go for a drink or just go somewhere where you could talk and as you have a chat with him and look at the feasibility of, “Is he missing you? Does he want to get back with you”? Maybe you both need to agree to get some additional help.
You might need some sort of counselling or therapy or some sort of mediation to work through some of the issues. I think you really need to look at what the reasons were why you broke up and if he's willing to meet up with you and he actually misses you as well and you can put a plan into place that would help you to resolve some of the issues, then there is a much higher chance that you can a) get your ex back and b) he won't become an ex again. I think it's also key that whilst you're working on getting your ex back, you make yourself attractive so you don't fall apart, you don't start letting yourself go, you don't start becoming obsessed with getting him back.
People like people that have energy, that live in their lives, that are confident and bubbly, so make him want you. Dress in a way that you know that will turn him on. Do things that will give you confidence.
Make sure that you are the person that when he met, he fell in love with. So don't lose yourself in getting him back. Make sure that you're taking on board all his different aspects so when he does see you and starts meeting up with you, he remembers what it was that initially attracted him to you in the first place and don't make it too easy.
Guys do like a bit of a chase, so even if you know that he's on the same page as you and he wants to get back with you, don't literally give in. Let him chase you a little bit as well because it will all add to the whole package once you've got him back and you start working on rebuilding your relationship. So if you'd like anymore advice on this subject, then please feel free to visit www dot thelifechef dot com and sign up for one of our free 30-minute taster sections.
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