How To Get Your Lover Back
How To Get Your Lover Back
Breaking up with someone you care about is difficult to endure. This video will give you the tips you need to get your lover back. Making positive changes will have a tremendous impact on having a healthy relationship. Relationship pointers can be confusing and misleading. This video will inform you in a simple manner so you can enact some of these methods in real life and get your lover back.
In this video I'm going to talk to you about how to get your lover back. Now this may be a recent split up or it may be a long term split up, but the first thing you really need to do is to assess that relationship. So, what went wrong, what could you personally do better.
It's important that your working with in your circle of control. So were not talking about what they could do better or what they could have done differently it's all about you. Make a list of the pros and cons of getting back together with this partner.
Is it really right for you? Is it really right for them? What is it that you can change and how are you going to go about changing that? Come up with a strategy, so work out what your goal is. Think about, I could have done this better, so for example, becoming more responsible about your health or about your finances. Write down every action that you could take to bring you to your goal of making yourself better in this area.
Work at what obstacles are in your way. These may be your own obstacles. They may be beliefs about yourself.
So, for example if you believe that your no good with money, it's likely you will never be any good with money. If you start to believe that yes you can make a difference and you can start becoming more responsible in whatever area of your life may be necessary then you can start to make those changes now. Give your ex that space that she or he needs.
It may be that they just need to find themselves again. It may be that they need the time to actually learn to miss you. When you have really started to make those changes arrange to meet up with your ex on mutual ground.
So not at your place not at theirs. And bring evidence to show you have really started to make those changes. Not that your planning to, but that you have already started to take those steps.
Prepare what your going to say to them when you meet up with them. Make sure your coming there with a very positive outlook. Think about how you would want the other person to behave if you were in their shoes.
Would you want them to whinge, would you want them to beg, would you want them to whine. Probably not. Come with a happy positive outlook showing them all these positive changes that your making to your life.
Be prepared that the answer may not be what your wanting to hear though. Respect their answer. Respect their position.
And just learn from the outcome of this. Take all that you have learned, take all those positive changes that your making to your next relationship leaving any baggage behind. And that's how to get your lover back. .