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How To Give Neck And Shoulder Massage

Give Neck And Shoulder Massage. This easy to use technique is a great way to help a friend or loved one to de-stress and unwind. This neck and shoulder massage will soon relax you morning, afternoon, and evening.


Step 1:

You will need

  • 1 straight backed chair
  • Some pillows or cushions
  • A volunteer

Step 2:

Setting up

This shoulder and neck massage can be done almost anywhere, but if you can find a quiet space where the person can more easily relax, all the better.
Have your person sit on the chair backwards with their legs behind and the chair back against their chest.
Place one of the cushions between the persons stomach and the chair.
For extra comfort if you want, place another cushion between the persons chest and the chair, leaving it out enough for them to rest their chin on it.

Step 3:

Body mechanics

We want to ensure that our own bodies are working without stress or strain. To achieve this, it is important that we use good posture and work from our centre.
Begin by standing behind the person to be massaged, and slightly to the left.
Now step the left foot forward next to the chair and turn the back foot 45 degrees.
Remember to always keep your back straight and the knees slightly bent at all times. This will allow us a greater range of motion while protecting our own bodies at the same time.

Step 4:

First contact

We begin with a light contact to the middle of the back. Remain there for a moment and try to connect to the person's breathing.

Step 5:

Upper trapezius squeeze

Without breaking contact, move the hands to the upper shoulder next to the neck and start to gently squeeze the trapezius, which is the triangular shaped muscle on each side of the neck, following it down to the tops of the shoulders.
Repeat this 3 times, gradually increasing pressure, but avoiding any discomfort or distress.

Step 6:

Finger circling

Straighten the hands and place one on top of the other with the fingers in line.
Now place fingers of the bottom hand at the top of the neck. Keep the arms extended and move your entire body to make small circles with fingers.
Using firm pressure, continue down the neck, then along the top of the trapezius to the shoulder.
Repeat 3 times

Step 7:

Side change

To change sides, remain with hands in contact as you step the forward foot back and take two small steps to the other side, then step the other foot forward into our behind position.
Repeat circling 3 times on this side.

Step 8:

Neck rub

Move to the side by stepping the back foot forward and face towards the person. Now make “lobster claws” with your hands, separating the thumbs from the rest of the fingers.
Alternate your hands and gently rub then lift the muscles on the back of the neck. With practice, this becomes a fluid, windshield wiper-type motion and is very relaxing for the person getting the massage.
Repeat this approximately 20 times.

Step 9:

Scalp massage

Move in front of your partner and place the fingers at the hairline on the back of the head. Starting from the centre, make tiny circles with the fingers, moving outward.
Continue up the back of the head, massaging the scalp as if you were shampooing the hair. Once you reach the top, move back down the sides of the head.
Move back to the side of your partner and repeat the neck rub 10 times.
Step back to the behind position, form the hands into loose fists and begin gentle tapping on the back and shoulders with the little finger side of the fist. Cover the entire upper back and shoulders.
Open your hands with fingers together and proceed to do "karate chops" along the trapezius and upper back. Remember we are only trying to stimulate, so easy with the pressure.

Step 10:

Finishing strokes

Finish with light downward strokes from the shoulders to the low back. The final strokes slide off, finally breaking contact.
And that is how to do a quick and easy neck And shoulder massage the VideoJug way. Be sure to check out all the other massage and relaxation techniques on the VideoJug website.

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modology  (19 days ago)

brilliant!! thanks for video

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wow i can feel the move ..ahhh..... ummm...

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Thank you!!

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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful Anonymous  (91 days ago)

These look like some good ideas. And what a beautiful woman!

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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful Anonymous  (94 days ago)

man i want a massage now! wheres my man when you need him!

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1 out of 6 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (140 days ago)

i dont know i think its was a good massage and all but kind of lame to be honest

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3 out of 3 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (151 days ago)

I plan on using massages to seduce the boy I like. I may have to use this...

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Anonymous  (162 days ago)

nice

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Anonymous  (162 days ago)

thanks,i love to learn how to do massage,cuz my husband love to had massage

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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful Anonymous  (167 days ago)

When placing hands first and connecting with the other person's breathing, do we squeeze the trapezuis on the inhale or exhale of the volunteer or it doesnt matter?

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Anonymous  (181 days ago)

My boyfriend love this relaxing technique. Thank you.

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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful Anonymous  (207 days ago)

I want a back massage...

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Anonymous  (213 days ago)

I LOVE massages & the video was great to see how real massage therapists do it ! I have to do a demonstrative speech on this so thank you so much for the help !

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3 out of 3 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (224 days ago)

Great video! And I like the massage guy: he reminds me of Toby from "The Office."

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2 out of 4 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (245 days ago)

what a funny guy.

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