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How To Manipulate Men: Mind Games For Bad Girls

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How To Manipulate Men: Mind Games For Bad Girls

All is fair in love and war, so get out there, get manipulating, and work for what you want. All is fair in love and war, so get out there, get manipulating, and work for what you want.

Step 1: Play hard to get

Don't rush to pick up calls from your guy, what do you think message services were invented for? He'll leave a message, but don't reply for a least a couple of days. If you make him think you've got more important things to do - he'll just want you more. This is such a good tactic that we've made a whole separate film about it.

Step 2: Flattery

Now you've got his attention, chuck him a bone and stroke that ego - just don't get the two confused at this stage. Tell him how great he's looking, or how impressed you are with his knowledge of those tricksy computer games. Flattery works especially well when combined with step 1: playing hard to get. Build him up, knock him back, build him up, knock him back. Look how confused he is - now your winning.

Step 3: Bribery

This is straight forward. You know what he wants, but he won't be getting it until you get what you want first. This tactic does mean you too could spend some time without getting, err... satisfied. But who care when there's a Tiffany's bracelet at stake.

Step 4: Jealousy

Repeat after me; Never. Stop. Flirting. If he thinks other men are after you he will just want you more, like a shiny, glamorous trophy he's trying to win. As soon as he catches a whiff of competition he'll be bending over backwards to make you happy.

If there's no one in vicinity to flirt with simply talking about other men will send him into a jealous rage, tell him about; 'Brad' who's a 'great guy' that you 'always hang out with.' Or go that step further and send yourself some flowers from 'a secret admirer.' Forget honesty and self respect - they won't get you anywhere

Step 5: Play Dumb

What would little-ickle you know about changing a tyre. Heavy shopping bags? If only you were stronger. And as for balancing your bank account - those number just plain make your head hurt. Yep, it's setting the woman's movement back about 100 years, but it gives you a break.

Step 6: Tears

If all else fails, resort to what you learned from an early age; turn on the water works. Not proper ugly bawling, just those pretty little sobs. Men are scared of crying women, they will do anything in their power to make you stop. Just remember not to go too far or he might start to think you're a bit high maintenance. Oh well, plenty more fish in the sea.

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  1. Chig

    I am with someone who is one of the worst manipulators ever .... I hate games but he grew up with a mother who let him get away with stuff and let him manipulate her, so now he tries with me ... but I see through all of it lol. However, with a scientific mind, when I tried the manipulation on him, he is probably one of the easiest people to manipulate and can have his strings pulled like a puppet! So, manipulators don't seem to have much intelligence :)

  2. grahamgpb

    I agree up to a point with being hard to get. Everyone has qualities that are unique, so we should all be a little hard to get, pretty or ugly, fat or thin. HAVE self esteem, God loves you, you are special and no-one ever will be exactly like you ...

  3. grahamgpb

    I guess I am old fashioned and believe that being yourself is the best thing. This whole charade looks pretty tiring...

  5. notaverage

    only person who deserves thiese games wre the arogant mosaginistic shovenistic men and yes they exist and yes these females exist and they both deserve each other...there's someone for everyone.

  6. fabio1214

    This is for average girls with acne on their chins who dye their hair red so they can try to stand out. In all the countries where women are actually hot, they don't have to do this. The girl who wrote this must be a plain looking girl from the mid-west who's not used to getting any attention. How weak this person must be to resort to trying to trick someone into liking her instead of being able to attract a man who actually likes her! This reeks of low self-esteem and abandonment issues. I feel sorry for any woman who actually tries this.

  7. tim98hg

    Try these things with me and I will tell you bye bye....I do not treat women this way and will not allow myself to be treated this way.

  8. marshape

    I dated a girl who did all this and she was a full-blown psycho. I diagnosed her with at least 2 personality disorders (I am a psychologist) and got the hell out of there super-quick (lasted a few hellish weeks before I caught on to how weird she was). I have an amazing girlfriend now who would never pull any of this stuff. I want to marry her. Enough said.

  9. chillywilly

    My ex-wife tried this approach on me, and my kids. Now, I am single, the kids live with me full time, and life is finally starting to look up. As I tell my kids "lies destroy relationships".

  10. sprix

    I think that would work only on wimpy men and those aren't the ones you'd ussally wanna aim for :)