How To Plan The Perfect Date

I'm going to show you how to plan the perfect first date. The key to the perfect first date is momentum and confidence. Take the lead early on and take control of the date.

No girl wants to find out the day of the date where she's going to be going, where she needs to be. You're going to tell her early on what's happening and where you're going to take her. A girl needs time to get ready, do her hair and pick an outfit.

You're going to give her that time and you're going to show her consideration by giving her a call first day. If you're really struggling for dating ideas, maybe have a look at her Facebook profile for little clues about things that she might like. If you can't find any clues, a really good tip is to ask her or text her, "If you went on a desert island for the rest of your life, what drink would you take with you?" Now, this one sounds like a peculiar question but say to her, "You're having a laugh with my mates, you've got this funny question about what drink you'll have on a desert island", because you can base what she'd like to do on a date by the clues she gives in her answer.

If she says, for instance, "I want to get a really cool cocktail, get a really funky Brazilian Margarita", then you're going to take her to a really cool cocktail bar. If she says, "I'll have a mug of tea and a packet of biscuits", you're going to take her to a coffee shop or you're going to take her to a really cozy bubble bar. As we said, the vital part of any good first date is momentum, you're going to get the momentum flowing from the start.

You're going to get there early, not just on time. Now, this sounds like a really silly point, get there early, it sounds obvious, but few guys actually bother to do it. Get there a good ten to fifteen minutes early especially if you're meeting her in a bar or restaurant or a diner.

What often happens when you get to a bar is that you have to queue up and get drinks and this can create lots of bad distance between you and your date. If you disappear for a long time to get her a drink, you know you're apologizing, saying, "Sorry, I couldn't get served", "Sorry, we haven't got a seat", "Sorry, it's really busy". If you're a guy who goes on a lot of bad dates, this will sound quite familiar to you.

What you're going to do is you're going to get there early, you're going to hook yourself a space, you're going to get the best booth in the place, you're going to get a really cool spot, a really intimate place away from other people's eyes. So when she comes, you're welcoming her to your space, you're going to sit down and ready to entertain her. Another good tip, especially if you asked that drink question earlier on, the question of what drink she'd like if she happened to get stuck in a desert island, is when she arrives, you're going to have that exact drink on the table for her for when she gets there.

It's just going to look like one, you pay attention and two, you're a fun guy to hang around with. This makes it look like you care about the little details and the little details are going to be what matters to making you have the perfect first date. That's just some advice on how to plan the perfect first date and how to get it off to a great start. .