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How To Post A Personal Ad

A personal advert has become the modern way to market yourself. Post a personal ad that will guarantee success with the assistance of Videojug.


Step 1:

You will need

  • Pen and paper
  • a computer
  • a little time

Step 2:

Select your site

Have a look on the in newspapers and on the internet at the array of dating sites out there. Think about the type of person you want to meet and where best to advertise yourself. If you are looking to maximize on replies, and don't mind travelling try a nationwide paper or one of the larger internet site. Try a local paper if you don't want to go far from home. If you have a specific hobby which you wish your partner to share than try a specialist publication.

Step 3:

Browse

Check out the personals already on your chosen site. What grabs your attention and what doesn't interest you. What do you think works? Is there a format you have to stick to? Pick up all the pointers you can.

Step 4:

Create and honest profile

Many online dating sites ask you to fill out a profile, including some pretty personal information. Be honest. If you are 6 foot 3, have blonde hair, piercing blue eyes, never exercise, love Dolly Parton, hate puppies and definitely want children then say so.

Step 5:

What are you looking for

Have a good think about the type of person you want to attract. Do you have a specific age range, what qualities are you looking for? Are you looking for friendship, love or just sex? Make a list of your objectives, this will help focus your ad. There's no point putting that your looking for deep romance with someone under 50, when really you want some fun with a brunette in their 20's who doesn't mind tattoos

Step 6:

Stand out from the crowd

You may want the same as half the rest of personals but find a unique way to say it. Avoid clichés along the lines of 'Likes long walks and candlelit dinners'. Instead try "looking for a fellow mischief maker for epic adventures and sharing enticing bush tucker". Be bold, cheeky and confident. Make yourself sound fun to be around and the replies will come thick and fast

Step 7:

Don't be a pessimist

Focus on your positive points and don't dwell in the negative. Stating that you are writing the ad because you have just come out of a messy break up, and are having trouble getting over it, will not create the right impression.

Step 8:

Review

Once it is written take a short break. Going back to your ad with fresh eyes will give a new perspective. Read it through several times, tweaking where necessary.

Step 9:

Include a picture

It's true what they say. It really does paint a thousand words. It also shows that you are sincere in your quest, multiplying the number of responses by a whopping 5 - 10 times. Make sure the picture is really of you and recent one to prevent disappointment later on.

Step 10:

Place the ad

When you are happy with your work. Submit the ad, and sit back as the offers come rolling in

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Anonymous  (122 days ago)

all these tricks in this website for find the date,doesnt work on me,i have tryed all of em.oh god i feel such a looser

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pelegs  (206 days ago)

always good to get help from a pro. I always say to little but the package is much better

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Anonymous  (281 days ago)

this b***h won't load

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hipkat  (369 days ago)

lol what is bush tucker?

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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful Anonymous  (386 days ago)

why the hell do people always associate kit kats with thinking. im mindless and like kitkats. kinda lost the point with where this was going. if it even had a point in the first place i dont know. now im just going to put a random word. Pigeon. Ha!, you didnt think i was going to throw that one in did you? but i did!! if you thought i was going to, then... um... yeeeeeeaaahhh

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Anonymous  (397 days ago)

take a break and review with a kit kat.....hahaha

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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful Anonymous  (404 days ago)

i love you,email me

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Beautiful.  (416 days ago)

This Is So Funny :D

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Gian-Pa  (424 days ago)

put a fake picture! :D kidding, just put the best one (with a little of photoshop, like black and white or some nice effect)

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calyeo  (486 days ago)

thats the lamest thing i've ever heard, dating from a pub? probably you'd get more luck from a gent's club.

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1 out of 2 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (498 days ago)

how to get tons of replies... put a pic up of your boobs!!!! works everytime.

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Anonymous  (515 days ago)

pubs are boring. common and well i'll say it again boring.

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2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful Realitychecker  (518 days ago)

Different people will find others who are like-minded in different places. It's not a question of "getting a life". If you enjoy going to the pub, it makes sense to try and meet other people there. If not, why waste time and money down the pub when you can focus your efforts much more efficiently in the way the video suggests? As with many other things, dating is not a "one size fits all" activity.

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2 out of 7 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (522 days ago)

What Loser would look in the newpaper for dates! You must be even sadder to look up how to do it on the internet! My advice is to go to a pub or something and get a life.

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