How To Settle Your Child Into Childcare
Leaving your child with a new carer is a very big step and it can be very upsetting when your child first goes to a new childcarer. A critical parenting step, so make sure you get it right with VideoJug's advise on how to settle your child into childcare.
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Step 1:
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Let your child become comfortable
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Visit the new facilities or homecarer at least twice with your child before they start. This gives them a chance to become comfortable with the new carer and environment.
Most nurseries have a 'settling in' period. This is the time when your child is first introduced to the new arrangements. The nursery will let you bring your child in a phased approach, maybe on the first couple of visits you can stay with your child at the nursery. Then slowly introduce your child to spending time there without you. Leave them for one or two hours, then a half day, and finally a full day. Nurseries are fully supportive in this approach.
If you have chosen a nanny or childminder, make sure you're around for the first few sessions with your child and the new carer.
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Step 2:
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Let your carer take charge
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In the initial stages, you will probably spend time with the child and carer together as they get to know each other. During this period, let the carer take responsibility for your child. It will give your child the chance to get used to a new face and voice and understand that mummy or daddy is happy with this new person in their life.
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Step 3:
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Pack a comfort toy
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Make sure that a comfort toy, like a favourite toy or blanket, is available for your child to hug when you have gone. This will give them reassurance and they will feel happy to see something that they are attached to and that they recognise.
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Step 4:
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Quick hug and go
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When you drop off your loved one, try not to hang around, lavishing hugs and kisses on the child. This will only make it harder when you have to go.
The best thing to do is let them know that you are going, give them a quick hug and then say goodbye.
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Step 5:
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Be upbeat
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The last thing your child will want to see is you crying or looking heartbroken when you leave them. Your child will pick up on your mood and will find it even harder to cope when you leave. Be positive and make your farewell as upbeat as possible, leaving your child to have as much fun as possible.
