How To Talk To A Girl On The Phone

I'm going to talk to you about how to talk to a girl on the phone. First off, congratulations, you've got a girl's number. That's half the battle.

I'm going to show you now how to take advantage of that. Phone conversations are all about your voice so you might feel like nothing else matters as apart from what you say. However, that's not strictly true because our voice portrays how we feel about ourselves.

If you've got a confident, bright, bouncy voice and it shows what we feel about ourselves. Support yourself in that frame of mind, even though you're only going to talk to her on the phone. She's not going to see what you're wearing or how you look or the fact that you're slouching around in a track suit.

Put on some decent clothes. Have a shower. Maybe go to the gym, whatever gets your endorphins going.

Put on a really bouncy track before you phone her. Get yourself in a really positive frame of mind because if you look good and feel good, you're going to sound good and you're going to project that to her on the phone. The beauty of a phone conversation is that you've got time to do a little bit of research beforehand.

Now, that might sound a little bit odd but take advantage of the fact that it's not face to face. A face to face conversation, it can feel very hard sometimes. You might run out of things to say.

You might not have anything funny to say ready for when they start talking to you. Well, in phone conversations, you can kind of, pick when you're going to phone somebody. You can build yourself up to it.

You can get things in the bag that you're going to talk about and make her laugh. They're going to be interested in you. If she's got a Facebook profile or a social networking profile, why don't you have a quick look at it.

There's nothing wrong with having a look at someone's profile. It doesn't make you a stalker or, you know, untrustworthy in any way. They put this information on the internet because they want the world to know about them so, why don't you find out what music she likes, what bands she likes, what films she likes.

Say, “Hey, I didn't know we had this friend in common”, or say, if you want to be really clever, find a band that she's really into and say something like, “Hey, you know, I've just heard this album. Have you heard anything about it? Is it really good”? One, it will show you've got something in common and two, it will give you something to talk about. If she feels like she's got things in common with you and you've got similar interests, she's more likely to give more information and want to talk to you more often.

Finally, don't feel like this has to be the longest, most important conversation of your life. It really doesn't have to be. Just be breezy.

Ask her out if you're going to ask her out or just chat at her for a little amount of time. Don't feel like you've got to talk to her all night. There's no real need to do that because you're going to have lots of long pauses.

After all, you're going to run out of things to say and it's natural so, take control of the conversation from the start and take control of it when it ends. Say, “Look, I'd really love us to go out some time” or “I'm doing this really fun thing over the weekend” or “I'm going out with my mates and it'd be great to have you there”. And say, “Look, I'll speak to you later.

I'll look forward to speaking to you another time”. Give her something to come back for. Say, “I'll update you as to how the situation went.

That little piece of gossip we talked about. I'll update you on what's going on”. “I'll tell you how that film was or how that album was or how that rock concert went”.

Give her a reason to think that you're going to phone again. Give her a reason to call you so you've got constant communication going. Don't leave it hanging.

Be confident, have fun, and take control of the conversation. That was just a few points of how to talk to a girl on the p