How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

Today, we're going to talk about how to tell if a guy likes you. Now, despite all these myths about "Girls are easy", "Guys are easy", whatever, I think the main thing is, first of all, to look at their behavior when they're around you. If a guy really likes you, there are certain ways he will behave that is an indication.

Now, I know some guys can give mixed messages, and sometimes with their friends, they might behave differently than when they're with you. But, generally, if you sort of plug in, you can get a feel or sort of a sense from the way he's acting; the way he's talking to you; if he's spending time with you; if he looks really interested in what you're saying; if he finds a reason to contact you outside of the normal social circles; then that should give you a strong hint that a guy really likes you. It might be that he chats with you a lot by Facebook or texting or emailing, but if the guy actually takes time out of his normal pattern to contact you or have any sort of interaction with you, then that's a real strong indication that he likes you.

Also, when he's with his friends, as well, look at his body language and the body language of his friends around him. If he offers to buy you a drink, if he's happy for you to come and meet his friends and introduce you to his friends as well, then again that's a sign that he does really like you. With some guys, you might have to be a bit more direct.

So it might be that if you like him and you think he likes you, then have a chat with his mates and just suss them out or actually, don't be afraid to ask him directly. If it's in the right environment and it's not done in a threatening or intimidating way, then some guys can be quite open enough to say that they do like you. I don't think there's any reason why you can't ask a guy out.

If you feel that he really likes you and you want to test that, then why not ask him out. Ask him out on an informal date, though, not a sort of three-course meal over dinner. So ask him if he wants to go and watch a film, or if he wants to go for a drink - something really casual.

That will give you a strong sign if he says yes or if he looks interested. I think the key thing is just to basically notice how much they go out of their way to talk to you; how interested they are when you are when you are actually speaking with them; if you're doing social things and they're around you or they're happy to hook up with you; and if they're really happy to do things on their own with you without other people being present, then I think that would be a strong indicator if the guy likes you. "Life Chef" Mary Daniels serves up several tasty tips on how to figure out if a guy really likes you, making it less of a puzzle. .