Comments made about How To Tell If Someone Is Gay Or Straight and available at VideoJug.com http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight http://backend.userland.com/rss RSS.NET: http://www.rssdotnet.com/ <p>The gay guy is handsome - top totty and I love his glasses.</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 2241ecb0-509d-c938-68c1-ff0008c97430 Sun, 03 Jun 2007 20:56:28 GMT <p>Not real helpful, because the questions asked are by nature difficult</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight a1edd44c-9576-bc3a-367b-ff0008c97445 Sun, 03 Jun 2007 23:25:23 GMT <p>Very good! *****</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 521ccd9e-09f4-202a-340c-ff0008c97501 Mon, 04 Jun 2007 21:51:05 GMT <p>thanks for this</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 0f8a977f-117e-36bc-c520-ff0008c9765d Wed, 06 Jun 2007 15:26:13 GMT <p>Anon is lusting over viddie</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight dcb37f60-4524-ff0c-4885-ff0008c985ad Tue, 26 Jun 2007 03:03:11 GMT <p>The thing is, how do you find out if they're gay before talking. If there's no conversation and you don't work with someone, you perhaps just see them regularly in a shop etc, and conversation is minimal, it's difficult</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight d8a31e8a-c15c-688c-fbcd-ff0008c99097 Tue, 10 Jul 2007 00:28:26 GMT <p>how can u tell if a guy is gay</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 36672814-8bf5-fb18-0fa9-ff0008c9a9b0 Fri, 10 Aug 2007 22:53:46 GMT <p>This isn't very good, as the tip is basically, "ask them." </p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight baec7bf2-548a-19ea-9c5b-ff0008c9afb5 Sat, 18 Aug 2007 14:48:36 GMT <p>uhh I think the questions in the end of the video are a bit too personal. Also, you can look at where their eyes wander to see if they are checking someone out or becoming nervous around certain people.</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 780e2a3f-f36f-0eed-6653-ff0008c9b240 Tue, 21 Aug 2007 20:27:08 GMT <p>do they change around? talk about other women, but vague, secretive. like you one day and not the next? very caring, but changing in their attraction to you. is that pretty accurate?</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight c578ac55-10fa-8ba3-a291-ff0008c9bcc2 Tue, 04 Sep 2007 05:24:35 GMT <p>the video implies they will tell you the answer. it doesnt</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 5f595420-2fcc-b6a8-652d-ff0008c9ec54 Sat, 03 Nov 2007 17:16:24 GMT <p>Hmm. This hasn't helped my gaydar at all. However, if you can't tell the blonde guy is gay, you don't get out of the house much.</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight e05df768-6fa6-8ba6-1cca-ff0008c9f770 Sat, 17 Nov 2007 20:32:31 GMT <p>this is useless.. like in the video says, you cant really tell. why make a video about something that tells the same message? you cant be sure unless you ask that person thats the only way</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 37c6c2f0-d8c0-5639-6542-ff0008ca0474 Tue, 04 Dec 2007 10:05:56 GMT <p>I think they best way would be... make out with them. But how do you get to that? If someone were to ask me if I were gay I'd be pretty damn defensive, I'm not comfortable letting that cat out of the bag. Maybe ARGGGGGG... If someone I was crushing on me asked, I would try to be forthright, but otherwise it's like... why do you want to know? So I can feel like more of an outcast? Fun. Girl at the diner... please make out with me.</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight f1748840-8ff4-7a3a-c3c7-ff0008ca0cc0 Fri, 14 Dec 2007 23:32:45 GMT <p>Looks like there isnt enough work to do in that office. That gay guy doesnt seem to have any much to do except flirt with all the guys around the place. Anyway, asking such questions at the workplace is asking for trouble. One's private sexual orientation should probably not be a discussable matter at work. ( As Billie Holiday said..Aint no body's business if I do.) Why not ask the other person out for a drink in neutral territory?</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 9eaa4fee-f41c-527b-d2c1-ff0008ca14fc Tue, 25 Dec 2007 11:02:49 GMT <p>wow... how completely useless</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 476af168-2147-1289-6ca7-ff0008ca238b Sat, 12 Jan 2008 23:38:52 GMT <p>You can't always know if someone is gay or not without asking them directly. But you should be able to read people well enough to tell if someone is physically attracted to you or not. Especially if you work with them a lot, if they compliment you or blush when you talk to them and that sort of thing. Best bet though is in the workplace just make friends first. Go to lunch, get to know them. If they like you they'll open up about it.</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 74039217-c26c-c1ee-3dc4-ff0008ca2493 Mon, 14 Jan 2008 07:07:21 GMT <p>the title suggests the answer will be given... it doesn't</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 9ee0b68d-aa7f-f1e4-fa72-ff0008ca31e9 Thu, 31 Jan 2008 06:30:59 GMT <p>lol.. the hell.. that is so stupid *british accent* Yees, sow i've been lookin foa a bah to go to.. any suggestions? lol..</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 16576c93-50d2-b44d-9fbd-ff0008ca34ff Mon, 04 Feb 2008 04:43:30 GMT <p>This video won't effing load!</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 38ff4206-ced1-d2dd-d4c2-ff0008ca36ea Wed, 06 Feb 2008 15:19:41 GMT <p>so to sum up the video. ASK THEM!</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight eeda15ff-184d-3736-ba0c-ff0008ca398a Sat, 09 Feb 2008 23:29:18 GMT <p>that was like what they said not to do in the begining</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight cf15e5fb-3157-6495-07bd-ff0008ca3bec Wed, 13 Feb 2008 00:10:52 GMT <p>Well, there are several ways to know since there are, in a very broad term, two extremes in which a gay person can settle: one is being the evidently gay person, generally bottoms (not always, though), and the other is being a very masculine gay person and hating the "evidently" gay people. Approach a masculine gay guy with these kind of questions and you'll probably be laughed at, since they're (generally) very insecure about their sexuality. Sometimes it's really easy to tell, sometimes it's not. An easy way to tell is for you to talk about "the" homosexuals with him and see his position and reaction. Perhaps mention if he likes Freddie Mercury's talent or the way Elton John works. If he says he hates gay people it's probably because he doesn't like them. Or maybe because he's too afraid to admit it (and generally, these kinds of people will only be within a certain age range, like 0-20).</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 38b26da0-8c54-354e-c8d0-ff0008ca3c62 Wed, 13 Feb 2008 14:20:57 GMT <p>I think if someone ask people such personal questions are rude. Just tell them to f**k off</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 479c3399-0189-f556-5e9f-ff0008ca4239 Thu, 21 Feb 2008 00:39:36 GMT <p>lol, </p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 7cd66dc2-67a3-1762-8d31-ff0008ca4fea Sun, 09 Mar 2008 10:50:40 GMT <p>what about guys that wear pink and purple and seem to like looking at u but seems to react positivly when others talk bout their gf;s or when asked bout his gf, i don t htink hes got one but im not sure. i m thinking hes gay or bi. he also does the big belt thing to and the tucking the shirt in soemtiems. but doesnt reall talk gay. also wat about ones that maybe dress punk gothy but apparently though they have a gf are very open to anyone mostly and mentiones erotic stuff and ya nevermindi dont think i need to ask bout that friend me and a few freidns have figured out he must be bi but wat about the pink and purple wearing ffreind lol</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 0958351b-27d7-3713-c166-ff0008ca554f Sun, 16 Mar 2008 07:37:43 GMT <p>i'm going to be so sad if this doesn't work.</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 80d26946-5983-e320-be0f-ff0008ca60ec Mon, 31 Mar 2008 03:19:11 GMT <p>Not sure if others have had a similar experience, but I've found that a reliable indicator can be someone's 'nature' - not their voice as such, but their style of speaking (does the person seem fairly soft, gentle, etc). A music teacher once came out to me at school, and, as I found out when I caught up with him again by chance a few years later, he always thought I was gay (and he was right, too). I asked him what the biggest factor was that made him think so, and he said a 'gentle nature'. And on seeing others, I think I'd agree that it's not only voice, mannerisms, style of walking, level of extraversion (eg. I'm actually very shy), and other superficial factors, but also just someone's 'nature' which can give you a clue! </p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight a59cf7a8-8b55-a0d0-01e3-ff0008ca6820 Wed, 09 Apr 2008 07:13:47 GMT <p>Ask them if they dream of old friends. Should frame your question in an indirect fashion though.</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight f4ff6194-aba2-3e9c-e07b-ff0008ca7ed3 Thu, 08 May 2008 04:36:46 GMT <p>Am I called a gay when I'm bi? I'm a girl and have a long-term boyfried (since several years) but from time to time i feel attracted to women although I've never made any sexual experiences with women.</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 6d59d4db-dfdf-dc1a-fa39-ff0008ca893e Wed, 21 May 2008 10:48:37 GMT <p>This video will not help anyone who is gay! It is just about asking others random nosey questions at work....etc. People do this naturally in everyday life. It is not simply a case of finding out if someone else is gay, it is just being interested in them as a person! And the chap giving the information is meant to be a Professional Psychotherapist! Well, if he is, he is not very good at giving advice!!! Like someone else has already said, people might as well just ask "Are you gay"? </p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 3b2aa5e7-4f8c-48a0-0617-ff0008ca9db6 Mon, 16 Jun 2008 11:51:11 GMT <p>This is ridiculous!</p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 4e783804-5234-96b3-8deb-ff0008caa565 Thu, 26 Jun 2008 06:35:19 GMT <p>My first semi-homo-erotic experience….long story, please be patient it gets kind of funny So im definitely new to this type of thing…I’ve only askd for advice online before for a few things and none of it this personal. So, I’m a 21 year old male student who works part time at a large law office. I have probably a moderate or light moderate social life though most of the people I chill with do go not go to my university, they’re from work. Im far from being a virgin but Im not a slut either. I’ve always identified as heterosexual because that has been my only experience. But since I’ve gotten to college I’ve had many gay fantasies. I’ve never acted on them, however, because of social fear and frankly, because Im confused. Im not the kind of person who runs away from the truth so I’ve always thought that I would come out if that was actually who I was. Thing is, I’ve always thought that they were just fantasies and not something I actually wanted to do. Generally because when I’m near a guy the last thing I want is for him to touch me (weird, I know.) That was, until this past weekend. This is kind of a long story, but the details are necessary: A guy that I work with was at a party I went to. We ended up sharing a car ride because he was in my area and had not driven his own car. We stayed up the whole night just chillin and talking because there was nothing else to do. When the sun came up, he asked me what I wanted to do. We weren’t hungry, I suggested swimming in the pool where I was staying (I was housesitting at the time) because it was private and no one would be there. He seemed excited about that. During the entire car ride I thought I picked up on sexual tension. There was even a moment when we got into the pool that was more intense than anyting else I’ve experienced with a guy. Everything instinctual in my body was telling me to make a move but I was scared and confused. Thing is, he’s about five years older than I. I kept thinking that if he was gay, he would make the first move. I even gave him an opportunity by sitting close to him on the pool steps. We smoked some weed together and then both of us fell silent for a long time. We didn’t really look at eachother all that much but there was definitely tension. IT could have been from the weed, I don't know. I couldn’t tell if it was panic that neither of us had anything to say, or if it was sexual. Anyway, we got out of the pool, dried off, and went inside to watch tv. On the way, I broke his pipe. I thought the dude was going to get pissed and leave but after stressing over it for a few minutes he said its alright. Straight or not, I know it’s a big damn deal to break another mans pipe. I told him “I’ll do anything to make it up to you man”. He didn’t seem to catch the innuendo so I followed it with a promise to take him downtown to buy another one whenever he wanted. We went inside and he didn’t drop any hints that he was bored or wanted to leave, which I took as a sign of his interest because I know that I would probably have wanted to go home at that point and sleep if I wasn’t going to get any. We both passed out from the weed although at one point I woke up and caught him looking at me out of the corner of his eye. He shut it quickly, which I thought was strange. I was about to tell him that I was going to bed and that he was welcome to stay for awhile (ambiguously leaving the ball in his court) but then I heard a yelp…..the dog I WAS THERE TO TAKE CARE OF DIED! ….yeah…..really!! WE HAVE NO CLUE HOW!! Anyway, the dude was so cool about it. He helped me get it to the vet and even helped me clean up the blood (from the dogs mouth….we really don’t know what the hell happened yet). We laughed about it and I took him home after. I dropped this on him: “This was not how I planned for this morning to go” and he responded “that’s for sure” and laughed. I even told him that I owed him one for sticking around and that next time “we’ll do this at your place”. He said again, “for sure”. Needless to say I’m no longer watching the house so I really don’t have anywhere to invite him to (I live with three very straight guys). The first day back at work, he had told several people the story which I thought was maybe a little strange because what straight guy would want to advertise that he left a party with another guy only to go swimming alone in somebody else’s house? Exactly the kind of thing that I would tease my friends about being gay for. Am I reading too much into that, or any of this? Since then he’s made a point of nodding and coming to say hello whereas he had never done that before. He hasn’t yet invited me over to his place or hit me up to buy him a new pipe but he seems to be struggling with some awkwardness every time he talks with me. We really don't have much to talk about besides the freak accident with the dog. Maybe its really me whose struggling and I put him off? ….straight or not. Not really sure how to proceed at this point, only that after that night I’ve had several fantasies about him, in particular, which is unusual for me because both my hetero and homo fantasies are usually general and not about any one person in specific. I’ve even begun to feel what I can only compare to what I felt when I fell in love with my first girlfriend….you know, getting all hot just watching mannerisms etc. Advice? Critiques? Suggestions? Looking for feedback from men, women, gays, and straights on this one. Thanks for reading and being patient! Peace P.S. Later that night, I accidentally let the other dog out in the neighborhood. He was lost for 24 hours. Fortunately he came back. Im not really a good housesitter am I? </p> http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-gay-or-straight 509618fb-0c20-2e4f-b527-ff0008caaa1c Wed, 02 Jul 2008 06:36:27 GMT