How To Tell If Your Wife Is Cheating
You may not know whether or not your wife is cheating on you, so relationship expert, Mary Daniels, is here to teach you how to find out.
Today, we are going to talk about how to tell if your wife is cheating. Now, accusing someone of cheating is a very big thing, so you need to be a hundred percent sure that you know something is happening. If you want to really tell if your wife is really cheating, I think it comes down to having a look at her behaviors and patterns.
That doesn't mean, however, just because her behaviors are changing or her patterns have changed, that she is cheating, so you have to be really really careful. It might be that she has taken up a new activity or sport or she has new social friends or is involved in just different things. So, don't immediately jump on her and say "you're cheating" or accuse her of anything because her pattern has changed.
I think you'll know her more than anyone, so if you're spending so much time with somebody, it might be if she comes across as a lot more secretive. If she finds reasons to not be around you as much as normal, where she normally would want to spend time with you or hang out with you, or do certain things with you. If you find that the time you've spent together dramatically reduces, that may be an indication that she is seeing somebody else.
If she seems very unhappy or distracted when you're together, or if you feel that she is also overcompensating, so it might be that sometimes, when someone is cheating, that they feel really guilty, so they start to overcompensate when they're in the relationship, so I think it is key to look at if her emotions are drastically swinging from one way to the other, so it doesn't necessarily mean that she is withdrawn, it could be going the other way. Now, these are all just indications. It doesn't mean, for fact, that she is cheating.
So I think you need to look at all the different signals, and if you do suspect her of something, so then, I think, there is no reason, you are well within your rights to actually sit down and ask her, "Look, are you seeing someone? Are you unhappy? What's happening?" because communication is really key in a relationship. Finding out whether or not your wife is cheating is a very delicate subject so I think it is really key to pay attention to the patterns and habits you normally have, if you feel that she is overcompensating emotionally, if she seems distracted or seem deeply unhappy, if she is not around when she normally is or she doesn't want to spend as much time with you, if she finds excuses last minutes to maybe cancel engagements or appointments. All those different things, I think it is a case of adding everything together, and if you really suspect, deep down, that your wife is cheating, then I think you can sit down and ask her, but be careful because it is a delicate subject and I think it is really really important that you look at whether or not it is an area you want to venture in, and if so, then look at doing it in a compassionate way.
So really, that is how, if you want to find out if your wife is cheating. You may not know whether or not your wife is cheating on you, so relationship expert, Mary Daniels, is here to teach you how to find out.