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How To Tip In A British Restaurant

Tipping shouldn't be an ordeal and with this easy to follow guide it won't be. Learn how to tip in a British Restaurant correctly!


Step 1:

You will need

  • Some cash or a credit card
  • a generous spirit

Step 2:

Evaluating service

When deciding how much you should leave for a tip think about your overall enjoyment of the meal and how or if the waiting staff has contributed to it.

Step 3:

The average tip

10% of the final bill is a nominal amount you should tip, and is expected if the staff have delivered normal, adequate service. This may vary depending on the quality of service and is a sliding scale from 0% to 25%

Step 4:

When to give a big tip

There are several occasions when leaving a larger tip than 10% is appropriate and could be anything up to 40%.

If the service has been unusually helpful, friendly and unobtrusive.
If your waiter has been particularly knowledgeable about the food and wine.
If the waiter has gone out of their way to accommodate an unusual request or problem.
or If you are a large group of 6 people or over

Step 5:

When to leave a small tip

If the waiter has done less than the bare minimum and has been generally unhelpful it is appropriate that your tip should reflect that.

Also if the waiter gets the order wrong or doesn't pay attention to special requirements and food allergies then you are within your rights to reduce the tip.

In the rare occasion that a waiter is actually rude or abusive to a customer the tip should be dramatically reduced or removed.

However be careful that you are not penalising the wrong person for problems during your meal. If the chef cooked something badly but your waiter handled the situation well by apologising immediately and replacing the dish then they still deserve a good tip.

Step 6:

When to leave no tip at all

Not tipping at all sends a strong message about the level of service you have received. Reserve 0% tips for venues to which you never wish to return as you may find it difficult to get a table once you've made known your disappointment.

Step 7:

Included discretionary tip

Increasingly restaurants are choosing to include a discretionary or optional charge with the final bill which can vary from about 12% to 15%.

While an optional charge takes away the hassle of having to work out a tip remember it is just that- optional. If the service doesn't live up to their suggested tip then don't be embarrassed to remove it.

Step 8:

Tipping by card

In some restaurants you will be given the option to leave a tip on your credit card when paying the bill. This is a simple and discreet way of tipping but bear in mind it is now legal in Britain for the restaurant to use that tip as a contribution towards its waiting staff's wages. To ensure that the waiter actually receives all of the tip it may be best to leave it for them in cash.

Step 9:

Tipping in cash

Once you have paid the bill, leave the desired amount on the table in a neat pile. If there is a tray or a bill wallet left on the table you can leave it on or in them.

Never thrust money into the waiter's hand during the meal or as you leave as it could potentially be embarrassing for the waiter.

If you don't have the correct change for a tip don't be embarrassed about asking your waiter to break a note.

Step 10:

In a hurry?

If you are in a hurry and are paying for your bill and service in cash it is acceptable to pay the waiter for the meal with enough excess to cover his tip and immediately leave. You do not need to wait for the change only to hand it back to the waiter.
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  • How Do I Tip In A British Restaurant
  • Gratuity Tips
  • How To Tip After A Meal
  • How To Tip Like The British
  • An Effective Way Of Tipping
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Anonymous  (126 days ago)

Ideas of percentage are what the problem is, I feel. I'll give a few quid to a waiter (I hardly eat upper-class anyway, so it's fairly good proportionally) if it's a good service. The 'Don't tip, don't eat there again' makes a fair bit of sense, though to be fair sometimes it's an individual person's fault (a bad waiter, perhaps), and not representative of the establishment. Particularly given society's apparent fear of criticising anyone in particular (bad service? Say something!), the least we can do is not tip a bad service. As an aside, 'teehee' at the To Insure Promptness, and its wrongness. Though it is nice to think that one of society's most honoured customs comes from bribing people. But good god, America is screwed up, if only in that regard. It's like stealing someone's car because they have feet.

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Anonymous  (135 days ago)

its very clear to see thoes who have never had to a days hard graft. "just carrying a plate from the kitchen and opening a bottle of wine"?? ... daddys credit card won't be there forever you know ...

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0 out of 2 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (135 days ago)

Not tipping is a sure sign of poor breeding. I would be embarraced to leave a restaurant having tipped less than 10%.

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0 out of 1 person found this comment helpful Anonymous  (135 days ago)

if only more people would see this clip! tipping un the UK has parctically been abolished and it is entirely out of order, in my opinion. 10% is standard and anything else is a complement. bearing in mind 10% of one meal is often little more than £2 why would you not want to be kind to your waiter by increasing it a little? SERIOUSLY- if you cannot afford to tip, order take away!

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4 out of 4 people found this comment helpful ivorq  (174 days ago)

Who paid for this video - some association of British Waiters? In Britain we not routinely tip as service is included in the price. Why pay twice? We only tip for exceptional service - not the day-to-day stuff. So please, visitors to Britain, don't get ripped off by spoof videos like this. This truly is bunkum!

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3 out of 3 people found this comment helpful jontycampbell  (244 days ago)

In UK tipping is not expected because it's their bally job and that's that. If you want to tip then no more than 10% is adequate, they get paid for gods sake. If anyone should be tipped then I suppose you can arrange with the management a tip for the chef too.

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2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (267 days ago)

Fair enough if waiters have to live off of the tips in the USA, but in the UK tipping should be optional regardless, you shouldnt be expected to give extra money if the resturant was below average, even if it isn't the waiters fault. Many different reasons for not tipping could include: waiting a prolonged amount of time to actually get a table, crap food, over priced food that could easily be matched from a ready meal at Tesco's (therefore its crappy, again), bad service, prolonged waits for food/drinks/orders... basically any kind of mess up you could possibly think of.

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0 out of 6 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (277 days ago)

in the US servers only get paid an hourly wage that covers the tax; their income is from tips! whether you like it or not that's the honor system in the US and most British still tip 10% or 5% or nothing(!) when they get good service and come up with all kind of excuses like they tip 10% in the UK (then they leave 5% in the US?!?); bottom line is the British are the meanest cheapest people on Earth, all the Europeans, even the poor Eastern-Europeans tip better; British are just stubborn and take advantage of the honor system; and if you care a bit about the Brits reputation educate them; they surely don't drive on the left side of the road in the US just because they do that in the UK; so they are not stupid just cheap cheap cheap

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1 out of 2 people found this comment helpful Anonymous  (309 days ago)

Depends where you live. In America a 20% tip is the average as waiters have to live off tips. In the UK waiters get wages appropriate to their skill so the tips are generally lower. Non british readers might be interested to learn that in the UK, at bars/pubs, it is a courtesy to offer the barman a drink if his/her service has been kind and punctual. The barman may then accept the drink (which he will have after hours) or take cash as an alternative (adding the cost of the drink to the bill). Bottom line, tipping is expected if you don't then you are a miser and likely to be poorly treated if you return to that establishment. As the text/vid says, "if you doN't tip don't go back to that place". To Oclarus: Yes, tipping is optional in the UK but I would NEVER not tip and then expect the same level of service the next time I returned to that restaurant. Tipping IS a way of showing your gratitude for good service and showing gratitude for a service received is the height of good manners and central to what it means to be British. You SIr, if you do not tip are a bad example of a British person. Shame on you. Also check out Waiterrant if you believe that 20% is not the normal USA tip level.

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anivash2001  (398 days ago)

IN OUR INDIA TIP IS OPTIONAL COMPLETELY EVEN IN 5 STAR RESTAURENT.

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Anonymous  (416 days ago)

To the people that think TIP used to stand for 'To Insure Promptness'. Suggest you look up 'insure' and 'ensure' in the dictionary.

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2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful royksk  (462 days ago)

I am over 60 years of age and have always only tipped for better than average service. The tip was originally (many years ago) "To Insure Promptness" and given before service to do just that. I have always been under the impression that in Britain the standard tip is 10% of the bill. I always cross off any service charges (which go into the company coffers) and tip staff personally. I also always fill in any blank spaces on credit card slips so that nothing can be added later. I'm not mean but only expect to pay extra for being given extra (sevice).

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1 out of 2 people found this comment helpful gregomite  (480 days ago)

No, nakorafree, you're wrong, the average tip here is 15%, 20% is a higher tip. And in the US, you can leave tips with cash, you don't have to just use credit cards.

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0 out of 2 people found this comment helpful nakorafree  (481 days ago)

Here in the USA a tip is generally 20%. 10% is only for extreamly poor service and is almost never done. I've never once heard of someone not tipping at all. I've also never seen a waiter bring a small machine to the table to pay with a credit card. In the USA we simply give the card to the waiter along with the bill. Although this does contribute to identity theft and now that I've watched this video it seems like a really stupid thing to do. I've never been to Britain but watching videos at videojug has givin me a small insite into cultural similarites and differances and I must say that Britain sounds like an interesting place to go.

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Carlsuth  (506 days ago)

I agree with the guy below. Food is cheaper in america so they can afford to tip waiters. and because waiters get paid minimum wage (which i assume is more that what US waiters get), they shouldnt be tipped as much. People shouldn't feel pressured to tip, and they deffienetly shouldn't be told how much to tip. They should just tip anything they want... whether thats nothing or a large amount, i thank you...

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