How To Understand The Grief Cycle
How To Understand The Grief Cycle
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This VideoJug film is designed to help you to identify and understand the grief cycle. Michelle Bassam, Counselling Psychologist and Clinical Manager of Harley Therapy, explains the grief cycle in a soothing, concise, and easy-to-understand manner.
The cycle of grief is very dependent on what you are actually grieving about and also the history of the individual. If you have a history of where you have had to go through loss and grief on many occasions, you will possibly go through this process differently. But, it's understanding that we all have to go through the process of grieving.
It is not something that we just hide away from and go into denial about. You will feel differently, you will act differently, and you will possibly need professional help - may it be antidepressants for slight depression or therapy. Start to recognize the grief cycle.
The grief cycle is, for example, shock, denial, and anger. These are emotions that you possibly haven't felt before. Eventually, you will get on to acceptance, but, before that, there is a strong possibility that you will go through a bout of depression.
When you get to the stage of acceptance, your therapist will then help you to understand how to move on and let go. When we say let go, we're not saying to let go of the past, but we're saying to allow yourself to move forward and let go of the negative feelings that unfortunately you are experiencing, possibly at present. Understanding the grief cycle will help you to progress and move forward through the grief cycle itself.
When you actually get to the acceptance stage, it will help you then to embark on your future, as change will automatically have taken place. .