Sex Toys Explained

Step 1: Dildos

A dildo is essentially a vibrator without a battery. Some people call vibrators,dildos, so it can be confusing.

Essentially, a dildo is phallic-shaped. There is a growing trend for them to look like a real penis. A dildo is specifically for when you want the sensation of vaginal or anal penetration rather than, for example, clitoral stimulation alone.

Dildos are mainly made of : plastic, jelly, silicone or latex. You can also buy them in materials like glass or leather.

Plastic-type dildos can be used when you want the feeling of hard penetration.

The jelly-type is softer and more pliable.

Step 2: Vibrators

Some dildos can also be used as vibrators just by adding batteries.

The hard plastic vibrator gives less subtle sensations and as it doesn't bend, is less versatile than the jelly type.

The jelly ones are good for G-spot stimulation. If you want to be really discreet, there are handbag-size vibrators.

A realistic style vibrator is more for when you want vaginal vibrations.

If you want one for clitoral stimulation that can also be worn while having sex, you could try the Butterfly.

Finally, there is the famous Rabbit. This is what is called a 'combination' vibrator. When inserted in the vagina and switched on, the 'pearls' stimulate you internally, while the 'rabbit' bit stimulates the clitoris.

Step 3: Balls and beads

Ben Wa balls are intended to produce pleasurable sensations while you are moving about. They are inserted in the vagina, and most, like these, have a cord for easy removal. The idea is that when you move, the balls rub together and that this gives you the feeling of fullness as with penetration. Alternatively, these vibrating eggs, which you also insert in the vagina have become very popular. Some of them have a remote control.

Anal beads are not for everyone, but are rising in popularity. Fans say the pleasure of having the beads inserted one by one and then pulled out quickly at the moment of orgasm, is exquisite.

A note of caution with these: check them to ensure there are no ragged edges. If there are file them down or cover them with a condom.

Step 4: Toys for the boys

Cock rings, like dildos, have been around for centuries but they still sell well. They help a man to keep his erection.

Some are plain or are nubbly to help stimulate the clitoris during penetration.

The latest toy for men, is the vibrating condom which gives a combination of protection and pleasure.

Handcuffs of course are toys for boys and girls. They go well with a blindfold.

Step 5: Lubricants

Lubricant is a ´toy´in the sense that it is an invaluable sex aid that can possibly add more pleasure to sex than any of the other toys. Most lubricant is clear, but like condoms, it also comes in colours and flavours.

And that's how to choose sex toys with confidence...the Videojug way!