all i can say is that its up 2 you, if you want to do it go ahead we cant stop you - but just make sure you actually want to do it and its not just him making you think ur ready but i bet youve already made ur decision as its like 90 sumfin days since u posted this comment but neva mind........

I will just say that I was 14 when I lost my virginity and although I don't regret who I did it with I really regret being so young. I thought I was ready and all grown up and now looking back I was just a kid, just enjoy the younger years. Kissing and holding hands is fine, after all you are fully aware about boys at that age but anything else is a big no no.

Well I agree with most of the people too. I lost my virginity at fourteen and it was a mistake. At first the guy seemed really into me and said he loved me, but most of the time at that age it is something they use to get down your pants. Believe me when you get older you will realize everyhting most of the things that people are telling. You can't get your teen years back and they are the best. There are so many complications that can go along with having sex that young. Emotionally and physiaclly

If you need to ask advice, you are too young. Dont end up a 14 year old single mum!!!

yeah.. i agree with everything ive read.. 13 is way to young.. my best friend slept with her first boyfriend at age 13.. and so did my other friend.. and they both admit that it was the biggest misstake they have ever made.. made them feel cheep and used. if he wants you to do those things and is practicly forcing you to.. dont bothter with him.. dont give in.. most proabbly notone of your firends would.. value yourself

You should not be doing anything sexual at 13. Hugging and kissing is fine, but don't go any further, you'll regret it. And why would you want to be doing anything sexual at 13? Go out and have fun at that age, you have many years to go before thinking about how serious you should get with your boyfriend.

i dont think any of us can judge you, its not right if someone says " OMG YOUR TOO YOUNG, DONT DARE DO ANYTHING, YOU WILL REGRET IT " look guys, this is about giving ADVICE, not trying to get this person to make a decision she isnt comfortable with. If you feel you wanna do sexual things, go ahead and do them - make you own mistakes and learn from them, its life. But on the other hand, also, dont let anyone pressure you...so its all your decision really. It might be a good idea to wait till youre legal , but again - up to you. good luck and wish you the best xxx

I would say that 13 is defo too young to go the whole hog. If you are both comfortable with each other, and you are not being put under any undue pressure then it's natural to experiment a little- you can't get pregnant by kissing etc!!!!! Just be mindful that when a boy gets his horn on, he will offer you the earth to get what he wants. Stand your ground and keep things at a level you are comfortable with.

i agree with flexxman. DONT DO IT YOU ARE TOO YOUNG, one day you will meet someone you trully love ,and you will certainly be alot older then you are now so WAIT TILL YOU MEET HIM you wont regret it, there is too much sex sex sex for young peaple to keep up with the mates , tHE ONES THAT BRAG are the ones that .not done it yet. beleave me tell him he too is too young and just be close friends, who knows in years to come he may be that special one and both of you will be glad you waited !! good luck

look if ur 13 u shouldn't be having sex ur too young keep ur virgainity keep it but if want too and ur comtable w/ it make shure u have comdoms or ur on birth control