I am outgoing, friendly, have lots of friends and have fun wherever I go; however, when I start talking to this guy I like I turn into a blithering idiot. He is shy and when I go over to talk to him I see him looking me up and down when he thinks I am not looking, is that a good sign or just a guy thing. I find he tries to make jokes but I am so nervous that I just say some random thing. I am all awkward and he is all awkward and I don’t know how to let him know that I am interested. Arrrr what should I do to let him know that I am not a bumbling idiot – should I just tell him he intimidates the heck out of me or just leave well enough alone and stay away so I don’t make a fool of myself. Help