Make her laugh during your conversations, think of some good/happy times you had or places you went, then ask her if you could do one of those things next weekend again. Does she KNOW you still love her? Maybe she still loves you but wont say in case your not interested? She is ringing YOU. Has she got someone else? Does she try to make you jealous talking how fun her life is now? You got to work out her reasons for calling you. Maybe she now see,s you as a mate even. Work out where she,s comming from by what she actually says before you make a move. Does she miss you? Is she just trying to see what your up to and if you got someone else? Or is she just trying to keep you dangling? Figure all this out, but if you say you got a date SHE may move back in on you fearing she,ll lose you if she,s interested still.

best thing is to always be honest with yourelf and do what your gut feelings tell you. If you love someone let them know....it might be just what she is waiting to hear which is why she keeps calling. If she says no then at least you have done your part and know that you can now move on with your life. Its scary i know but its better than just hanging there and at the same time if you don't do it and things end you are always going to be kicking your self and saying if only i had... so go for it and GOODLUCK :)

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She obviously still cares about you alot to phone, it is a platform you can build on if you don't do anything stupid or sound too desperate. You know her weaknesses....but don't move too fast, let her think you're not interested, but keep her sweet. Play your cards right and are in with a fighting chance.

If she split with you and you are still hoping then you have to ask yourself whether this is a game she's playing , the phone calls etc. Get out there and get on with your liife for a while. Appear as if you are enjoying yourself, even if you are not and tell her about it when she phones. Be upbeat about your future, mention working in another area even. If she thinks you might slip off with someone else she will be back very soon :o)

Since you are a guy, it is so much easier for you to get her back than it would be for women. If she still calls you regularly- that's a good sign, she still cares and you didn't break up because you are so fed up with each other. Tell her how you feel. But do it smart. Make it special for her. Ask for another chance. and don't waste it..Good luck

Your ex is an ex for a good reason. The ex of an ex is the worst possible condition

you dont give the reason for your break up but if it was one of those, she needs more space kind of things, move on.....and quit the phone calls! your just prolonging having your heart ripped out and handed to you.

never give up hoping. only you know what will make you happy. pursue your girl. ofcourse it's a good sign. specially because she contacts you should do your best. and never EVER give up. good luck mate.

no-one but you and her can work it out- the one thing youll find if you dont do something about it you will always wonder what if. i was in a similar situation, went back to her and it didnt work out- but at least i knew and moved on.