As i said before love is a bit strong! Find out if she,s even attracted to you or whether you are just one of many she may be communicating with. Ask her out. Save the "love" bit till you get to know her much better. Theres a difference in knowing someone as friends and knowing her personally. write her an email though and she either accepts your offer or she dosent and then you can set your sights elsewhere. At least it will put you out of your misery and you will know where you stand.

I think I should tell her by email, right? From what I have heard, I dont think I should tell her in a chat out of the blue, and so email is the best way to go. When I am composing my letter to her, I would still of course wish to know what she thinks of me, or atleast get a good enough hint of whether she feels at all atracted to me or at all not, so that I may compose my letter in such a way that it would relieve her of the stress while she was reading it. If I told her how much I loved her when she really didnt love me, it might be a dangerous situation. and If I told her that love is a natural thing and such while she really loved me after all, it would not seem so romantic and happy. So is that the way to go? tell her via letter via email? i still want to know ahead of time to see whether she loves me or not, so I can write acordingly. Even if i get the hints that she doesnt love me, I will still tell her, though.

Share her interests, ask her what she, s looking for in a man, ask if YOU could be that lucky man! Get her to send photos, tell her she looks great that you find her very attractive, ask her out, YOU CAN DO IT!!! and will feel glad you did and will be dying to hear her answer! You will also find it easier the next time around. Its a learning game and you get better at it but you have to start somewhere and will kick yourself if you lose her to someone else! Let me know her answer

You could fool aroun with her on the internet or by text and ask her want you want to know that way. As its not face to face, its not so embarrassing and she may be just as shy as yourself! Either way plan what you will ask her and do it so you will know one way or the other then you can either get something going with her or put your energy elsewhere. Make sure you ask though as she might even be waiting for you to ask or might not even know you fancy her in that way. You will be sorry if you dont as someone else may get there before you! If you text/email then you wont have to see her again if she,s not interested but at least you will know and can move on.

I dont even know if she so much as fancies me, I havent asked her out, but I do try to be really nice to her, however I think that compliments are a good idea I have not thought of. Of course, I really want to find a way to see if I can know whether she does find me attractive, but the only way I could find out would be via internet, and so that is how this question had sparked. A relationship does grow with time, and I wish I felt confident enough to ask her... But for now all I feel comfortable in doing is flattering her and trying to get her to like me if she doesnt already.

This girl may LIKE you or fancy you but may not love you! Love is a very strong word and grows with time, usually time that is spent together sharing your thoughts, dreams, worries etc and building a bond/ trust in the "relationship". Can you not meet with her/ take her out? Have you asked her if she has a boyfriend or if she even fancies you? Tell her you find her attractive, pay her compliments and ask her how she feels about you.

you dont have to read those details I gave to answer the question

?Details on My Situation? ?What is my past/current relationship like?? Me and her have gone to school together since preschool in a montessori schooling system. We have always been in the same class together. However, we havent always gotten along with eachother. This is mainly becuase I had a bad case of ADHD when I was young, and therefor could be a little annoying and hyper. In mid 6th grade, my condition had calmed, and I was alot friendlier and got a lot of positive feedback from that. I made alot of friends with those who werent before, including her. At the end of that year I suddenly started having feelings for her. two years passed. At the end of 8th grade, i tried to show more frequently some hints that I loved her (such as those from VJ's video: http://www.videojug.com/film/how-can-i-tell-if-he-is-attracted-to-me ). I did not intensify or suddenly show affection towards her, I have always done some of the things around her shown on that video, however I just tried to have, say, prolonged eye contact, and sub conscious (not really sub though) mirroring and such more frequently. But I didnt tell her my feelings like I planned. Now, we have ended our final year at the school, and we are going to start at different high schools next year. We still stay in contact (along with the other few graduates from school), but only by facebook, aim, text messages. So, is there any way I can find any hints that she loves me in what she comments about and what she IMs me? Some things to remember or add about my particular situation: In this montessori schooling system, we always had a tiny class-from about 5 to 25 people in a class. In this system, we are always in that same group/class. There were few graduates from school since there were few people Some signs that may be showing some truth which I saw when I was with her in class was that she often got up from where she was sitting to sit by me during lunch or before class, and with the same respect, she also got up from a seat next to me to sit some other place. I saw no trend in people she tried to sit by, other than her friends. That is curious to me, is it a positive