i agree with this

--if you can make her/him feel secure --if you let your partner know that he or she is the one for you and show that you love her / him with words and behaviours --if you really don't try to flirt with other men/women - if you don't tell lies to your partner (small or big) - if you aren't cheating on her or him - if you let her know where you are/who you are with/ what you are doing when she or he feels insecure --if you introduce your partner with your friends -- if you don't go to the places without your partner that might make her or him feel discomfortable (i.e. striptease bars, night clubs, prostitution centers, crazy parties, etc. --if you dont stay with other men's or women when she is away ("just friends" is a cliche lie nowadays) --if you dont use drugs and dont get tooooo much alcohol --if you keep your promises to her or him --if your behaviours are coherent and stable --if you tell her that you are happy to be with her or him --if you make compliments to her/him (people need to knwo that their partner attracts them) --if you know to say "thank you", "i love you" , etc. --if you let your partner to know when you miss her or him --if you call her or him wiht no reason just to hear her/his voice for a few seconds in a day --even when you are apart : if you know how NOT to leave her/him out of your life --if you dont make her/him feel alone --if you tell and show her / him that you take your relaitonship serious --if you don't hide your partner form your friends and she or he knows that you are proud of being with her --if you don't say people that you are single when she is away --if you don't shut off your phone when she/he calls you --if you try to reply back when she/he texts to you -- if you try to remember special days (birthday) --if you give your time and energy for this relationship from heart --if you make your partner feel you only want to be with her or him (even if she or he isn't a super model) .....then things will be better ! --AND avoid having that sort of mentality and saying that sort of things which breaks her or his heart : "everythign is temporary" , "relaitonships are temporary", "oh i cant believe we will be together in 20 years", "you idiot", "you are stupid", "my ex bf/gf was gorgeous", "infidelity is a nature of human", "i dont knwo when we can meet again", "i am sick of you", "you are ugly", "you are stupid", "your family is bla bla bla", "... is better than you", "i just dont care", "mary, jane, lisa, jennifer, angelina, valery, tina.... are just my freinds !", "i am going out to a dinner with jessica (james), i wont be back tonight", "i am going to venice with valery at my birthday, she insisted on much, i am sorry.", "i really have no time for you", "i am bored", "i am going, "i am not happy with you", "i dont love you" or silence/lies/elusive answers. and stop having secret lives, secre emotional affairs, secret relaitonships. e honest, open, sincere and show your love. -----------------hopefully things will be better with this. if you want to be treated like a prince, you should not treat her like a cinderella : you should make her that she is your real princess. (vice versa for men).