hi, this is my very first time writting something like this, i know how you feel thou i am not married and i dont have children but i come from a family who is religious and would never accept me if they knew the truth about me. 23 years of my life has gone by and i feel lost in my own world. i wish i knew what to do.

i understand exacly what ur sayin. i have felt like that too. b4 umeet other women u firstly have to be comfortable with ur sexuality, coz then u give off vibes. i would try simplygoing to gay clubs with some good mates who are behind u or even going to gay pride. belive it or not most people are curious about thier sexuality so there is no need to worry. once u discover who u really are, the girls will follow

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First things first... are you attracted and inlove with your husband, if the answer is yes, then maybe rethink your "siduation" if its no, or you cant decide, maybe you should start lookin for an out, its ur choice ovously, but very few gay women will involve them selfs in a relationship with a married women, if your look for "just a friend" then maybe a bar or a gay friend could help you out..but the wedding ring is a huge turn off, i speak from experince., fell for a married chick, left the siduatin because i didnt want to get "involved" never saw her again. although she did say she was gay...gay women become emotionally attated and wont put them selves in the persition of "sorry i cant leave him"

You are in a very difficult position. The makor thing being that you are married. You really have to think this through before taking one step further If you do meet the lady of your dreams, what next. Do you want to remain married and have an affair, are you considering leaving your husband for this new woman when you find her. It is so easy to meet lesbian women. They are all around you, you just don't know it. But before embarking on this, i really think you need to think things through Good luck webmaster http://www.moviesforlesbians.com

i am in the same situation as you married 2 children, but my feelings have got a lot stronger, i have been in chat rooms, and i was lucky enough to chat to another women who has help me, like you i want to meet some one and take it from there. its nice to know i am not the only one in the same situation as me age 36

Thank you very much. I really appreciate all your help and advice. You sound like you have been through this journey before. My children are my life and would never do anything to hurt them - that is what is making this whole journey more difficult. I have always believed I was gay, since I was at school but I thought I had to follow the norm - husband, marriage, kids etc. I would love to try going to a gay bar but I know once I begin there will be no going back. Sometimes I think it would be better if I just put my feelings to one side until the kids have left home, and then I will follow my heart. I am just so confused and the fact I have no one to turn to is making it all the more difficult. That is why I would love to meet and make friends with other lesbians - not necessarily to be with that person, just to be friends with someone who understands what I am goign through and to turn to in difficult times Once again I appreciate your advice, I really do. Thank you x

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Hi Jessie, This is always a problem for people in your current situation. I found my G/F online. We met in a chat room nearly ten years ago now and she was with a man at the time but bicurious. We started by meeting as freinds and took it from there. If you are having no luck in the chat rooms there is always your local personals..again I know that can be tricky if your in a small town. If your bold enough find your nearest Gay Bar and visit it one lunchtime not evening maybe between picking the kids up from school. The bartender will tell you of events going on specialist nights etc..there will also be Gay magazines/Newspapers lying around for you to look through, which will open up a incredibly exciting but heart stopping journey for you. Please think it through though as you do have children to consider and what starts off as a bit of fun can lead into something more serious. I've never looked back after changing sides but I have no children, so I wish you well and hope you find what your looking for.