Just get out and meet people, increasing the likelihood of meeting someone suitable. There's no easy way to just find 'the one'. If there is such a thing.

Afrobit - sorry ive never heard such absolute rubbish... sit back and God will find them for you? lol....

There is no "the One" people! unless of course "the One" can be lots of different people... (oh wait but then i guess it isnt "one" anymore /sarcasm) once you understand that there are lots of people out there you are attracted to and that are attracted to you you will be happier and you wont get hung up on this outdated idea.

Once you stop trying to find a women or find a man. And just learn to be by yourself and love your self as person.then the "the one" will come into your life.But it takes time,"the one" maybe looking for you as well. but he might have things to work on to better himself as a person. Education,Money,etc. Once both of you finally work on yourself, then somehow your two will come together. but dont keep looking for a man.if you keep looking for one you will wind up with the wrong person. Let God do the work.Just sit back and chill.God got it! P.S.-not everyone you meet is the one,you guys have to at least have the same values and beliefs.Once your mature the person personality is more imporatnt.how they treat others. Do they get along with there parents? different questions you need to ask this person.

i used to think that when people say "you will know when you've found the one". That they where talking rubbish, untill about a year ago when i met a girl and she completely turned my life around. I dont know how but i knew that she was perfect for me, we laugh at the same things and cry at the same things, if you can find these qualities in a person then they probably are the one for you.

There are many, where are they. Probably like you & me they are hunched over their pc's

I believe there is more than one for everyone....

okay but how do i find "the one" when ima fourteen trying to get over a break up though?

you cant actually find the "one". if you keep searching for the "one" it may never come. just let it be and the "one" would come to you without you noticing. There must be a real special feeling you feel and you feel connected to the person in some ways. Seriously, maybe the "one" is your best friend or neighbour. the majority of people of claiming "the one" must be loyal and faithful and can live with you theough your daily life blah blah. Its hard to explain, but let me just tell you that, you never know who "the one" might be. Let all the odds of meeting "the one" come to you. Dont keep expecting or looking for "the one". "the one" would come to you unexpectedly. =)

it is so importanat