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if you have time knowing him you can tell by the way he looks at y...

Wed, 31 Oct 2007 01:04:37 GMT

if you have time knowing him you can tell by the way he looks at you, (people in love have like a warm-tender look) the gestures and how does he treats you xD.. And what how does he talks about; if he's rude, soft, normal.. if you just met him.. i don't know

You can tell if he loves you by the fact he becomes all protective...

Sun, 04 Nov 2007 20:03:36 GMT

You can tell if he loves you by the fact he becomes all protective. If he shows courtesy for you, if he holds your gaze and if he smiles when he's talking to you on the telephone (you really can hear a smile). Its also obvious if he hangs about trying to get your attention - that seems to happen when hes shy.

I think men by nature are not gifted in the subtleties of indirect...

Tue, 06 Nov 2007 13:56:05 GMT

I think men by nature are not gifted in the subtleties of indirect communication, so just be open and honest about it. Tell him directly what makes you feel the most loved. What makes you feel the most appreciated? If he loves you, he will want to make certain you feel loved. Not certain about what you appreciate the most or what makes you feel loved? Just review the five love languages and rank them accordingly. In what order do you appriciate these things, on how specifically do you like them demonstrated? The love languages are: Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Acts of Service and Gifts. Rank them in what you can't live without. Ironically, the things that you love the most can also be used to hurt you the most. This is justifiably one of the biggest reasons people put walls up in their relationships--to not become vulnerable to hurt. Again, you know if your man loves you if he chooses to make you feel loved in a way you can understand and chooses not to use those same things against you. Done. :D

This is a really easy answer - if he is willing to follow you arou...

Tue, 20 Nov 2007 13:33:49 GMT

This is a really easy answer - if he is willing to follow you around H&M for an hour- then its love, cards & gifts will come & go, but true loved canbe judged by the committment to shop with his missuss - men hate shopping! All the clothes you try on are nice, they all fit perfectly, the reason im looking at the woman with the big t1ts is to see wether or not that top would suite you- Honest!!

I think the concept of love varies from man to man from woman to w...

Wed, 26 Dec 2007 16:30:45 GMT

I think the concept of love varies from man to man from woman to woman. for example some women believe that the man reflects the bead to speak in the sense that demonstrates good words and some ladies believed that the man loved them if he bring a gift. so it is depending on your understanding of the man and his qualities in the way he put the bead possible meet all your needs do not forget gifts to bring it any occasion.also when you sick he will be sad .

okaii.. those are some good responses but i'm going out with this ...

Wed, 12 Mar 2008 01:32:32 GMT

okaii.. those are some good responses but i'm going out with this guy.. he says he loves me but i really have trust issues.. i can never believe it when a guy tells me he loves me.. he swears n promises he does.. i believe he does because his eyes dont lie.. but what do i know?..

simple you know a man loves you when he will give up what he treas...

Sat, 15 Mar 2008 04:16:00 GMT

simple you know a man loves you when he will give up what he treasures the most, whether it be time at a footie game or a day at the office, if you can ask him(not force him)into giving up that time for you for no other reason except time spent with you, then you know he loves you. Believe i have four brothers and been married to the same man for thirteen years!

If he loves you all those other girl that he was messing with woul...

Sat, 05 Apr 2008 00:10:18 GMT

If he loves you all those other girl that he was messing with would not be there anymore. He calls just to see how you doing.he'll do anything to ake you happy,and maybe spoil you. he wants to hang out with you alot.he talks about it to his freinds. He treats you with the utmost of respect and love. when you look into his eyes you see the way he loves you and you feel it.

you can be in love with someone and you are afraid to tel him/her ...

Fri, 11 Apr 2008 14:36:31 GMT

you can be in love with someone and you are afraid to tel him/her coz you dont want to get hart with the way he or she will rely.and men are all the same.remember we have good pretenders.thaks for the chart.

true that but i think one time myboyfirend said I love you two tim...

Fri, 11 Apr 2008 16:07:31 GMT

true that but i think one time myboyfirend said I love you two times but im not shure he said it knid of fast so I couldn't say anything because the moment was gone and he has not done it again

He cant stay away from you, he wanted to be in touch with any mean...

Tue, 15 Apr 2008 12:08:38 GMT

He cant stay away from you, he wanted to be in touch with any means he can find.

WELL LOVE U JUST FELL IT WEN ITS TRUE LIKE ME MY LAD NEVER SAID HE...

Sat, 19 Apr 2008 12:35:50 GMT

WELL LOVE U JUST FELL IT WEN ITS TRUE LIKE ME MY LAD NEVER SAID HE LOVED ME AND NEVA WILLL COZ HE IS GETTING FORCED TO ENGAED TO SUM1 ELSE BUT ITS THE CONNECTION THAT HAPPEN WEN HE CRYS I KNOW IT WEN I DO HE KNOWS IT THATS Y I STAY HAPPY

If you dont trust that he loves you and he swears he does that is ...

Sat, 19 Apr 2008 15:12:14 GMT

If you dont trust that he loves you and he swears he does that is an insecuity on your part and you will end up losing him if you keep testing him to prove it to you or start getting too jealous. You should know or feel if he does love you by the way he is around you compared to how he is around others, how much time he spends with you and the things you do and talk about. You dont do the samethings with friends as you do with the one you love. If you do have insecurities that stem from childhood get them sorted before they ruin your life.

From his perspective, a lot of things is going wrong every time he...

Thu, 01 May 2008 12:35:19 GMT

From his perspective, a lot of things is going wrong every time he talks to you. Or if he is very popular and confident, he might be overconfident.

theese are really good and helpful answers but my boifriend always...

Fri, 20 Jun 2008 03:20:53 GMT

theese are really good and helpful answers but my boifriend always says he loves me but alwayz hangs out with girls even when im rigth in front of him..and he does talk to his friends bout me but yet he doesnt want other ppl from higher grades to know that wre dating...he calls me all the time even at 3:00am in the morning just to see what im doin cuz he thinks i cheat on him while i WOULD NEVER cheat on him. Its so confusing.i feel like im the only person in the world that has to deal with something like that and it gets to me sometimes/

I'm sorry. If he doesn't want other people to know he's with you, ...

Fri, 27 Jun 2008 03:00:08 GMT

I'm sorry. If he doesn't want other people to know he's with you, if he calls you at 3 am to see if you're cheating, flirts with other girls in front of you, then he doesn't love you. He sounds controlling. It sounds to me that you are still in school. School is the easiest place to meet guys. Just tolerate him for a bit until you lose your interest in him. Don't be physical with him whatsoever. Drop little subtle hints to other guys that you're available like make eye contact and say "hello". You'll meet someone to trust. Like they say, "more fish in the sea." Cast a wide net to catch more fish. Devote time to your studies and your family. Don't test his love. He'll notice that you're being a bit distant. Don't answer your phone at 3 am. Trust me, doing something nice for yourself, putting your needs and interests above his will help you get over him and you'll find out what makes you feel better about yourself and what kind of a guy you really want to be with. Your self esteem will rise. You might even realize that this guy is not right for you. Even if he doesn't love you, he will still give conflicting messages about him loving you. But don't believe it. I know it sounds like I'm enabling your trust issues. But sometimes your instincts are correct. This guy sounds like a control freak who confuses love with power. Don't learn to accept this behavior from people. To tell you from personal experience, a guy treated me like this when I was in school. I decided not to deal with his treatment. I realized he only wanted sex (I was a virgin before, during, after the relationship.) I spent quality time with my family and he realized that I have a beautiful life with them and wanted to hang out with us to the point where he wanted to spend the night in my house. Of course, I did not allow it. My grades were great and I accomplished a lot in school. You see, men love it when women achieve status and goals in school and work. It shows that you deserve respect. It got to the point where I got bored with this guy because he was not making progress in life. I didn't contact him for 3 months and then he showed up at my house with an engagement ring and he just cried and begged for me to marry him. I said NO! I always believed he didn't really love ME but he loved the fact that I was going to have a successful life after graduation and he wanted a piece of the action. Plus, I wouldn't have sex until marriage. Yep, you guessed it, I didn't trust him. I knew him a total of 3 years. But, at least he learned his lesson. To treat a woman right from the start and not to take her for granted. I hope he succeeded with the next one. I have had boyfriends ever since whom I've trusted and had a great time with and others who made me miserable. Still not married, still virgin. Yet, the man in my life now tells me he respects me and that he is proud of me. It's been 2 years in this relationship and he treats me like a lady all the time. He encourages me. We never said, "I love you" to each other. And I'm not going to beg him for affirmation. I love him. But right now, I'm satisfied with the respect and admiration he shows me in private and around friends and family. You'll find someone eventually. Remember what George Carlin said, "You always find what you're looking for in the last place you look." Keep looking and finding. The world is full of great men.

these r really gud responses...nd i dunt think i need 2 say nythin...

Sun, 13 Jul 2008 18:31:21 GMT

these r really gud responses...nd i dunt think i need 2 say nything furthr on this..but i wanna share my problem....when i nd my bf were nt in relationship he used 2 call me frequently,showed much concern..nd was very caring...bt now i feel that things have changed...now he rarely has balance 2 call..nd once wen i talked 2 him abt it..he replied "talking doesnt matter..u love me nd ii love u..so wat difference does it makes..earlier wen i used 2 ask abt ur problems so many times den u used 2 tell me..bt now u'l tell me on ur own" in one way he is also right..but i long 4 the care nd concern.... wat shud i do...???