I have that same problem!! Although, my parents still suspect something. And I dont think they like it!!! Now, I have a feeling inside of me that is eating away at me so I just have to tell!!! My only problem is, how do I tell my parents?? If you have any ideas PLEASE tell me!! Try to e-mail them to me!! Here's my e-mail address... :: yodalover22@msn.com

I have the exact same problem .. I'm also 15, and he is 18. And an even bigger problem is, that we live very far away from each other, so I don't get to see him a lot. Right now I go to a boarding school, so I just tell my parents i stay here in the weekends, and then I see him instead. The problem is, what do I do when the summer is over, and I'm living at home again? It seems suspicious that I travel to the other side of the country for a weekend. But I'm planning on telling them when i turn 16 in just over 3 months. Then the age-gap doesn't seem so large. I know I have to tell them some time, because I really, really love him, and wouldnt be able to just stop seeing him. So I might as well get it over with.

The more times you bring him home, the more your parents can get to know him and see for themselves his good points that you see in him, such as his personality, sense of humour, his caring side etc. Looks should not count for much as beauty is on THE INSIDE. Once they see he,s really a nice, fiun boy that can be trusted they wont be bothered so much by his looks.

do u nt have a problem with the age gap??? do u trust hm enuf 2 nt take advantage??? xxx

As a perent of two daughters, it's a problem when the dreaded boys become a siginificant part of their lives. However, I like to believe that I'm liberally-minded enough to allow them to make their own mistakes. Your parent's concern wil be whether you are/intend to become sexually invovled with the boy. Unfortunately, however much you'll aregue how sensible you are in that respect, you parents will not be convinced. The onus, as the older party in your relationship, is on your boyfriend to reassure your parents that HIS intentions are honourable (aside from the legal implications of him becoming sexually involed with a legal minor...). Perhaps it would help if you invite your chap to your home so that he and your parents can get to know one another. Believe me, your parents will imagine far worsde things about what you and he might get up to alone, so why give them the sleepless nights? The very last thing you should do is lie to them or be deceptive. If there's one thing both of your parents will loathe is being lied-to. Be bold, be brave and be upfront. Although they may well say 'no' outright. they will respect your honesty. Use that to your advantage.

I have kind of the same problem except mine is my parents refuse to let me have a boyfriend. Me and this guy are going out and I don't know how to tell them. Any help? For your situation, I would just tell them straight and say you can't change this or my heart. This is how I feel this is who I am.

just say,,, mam im going out with him and wouldnt you rather me be honest with out then lie to you,, i dont have to tell you but i am,, and if you try and stop me seeing him ill find a way

Why cant i tell my parents?

How do i tell them that i have a boy friend?

Make your parents clear that he is just a friend, but when your parents aren´t around you, he is your boyfriend. But like you said, you can´t hide it forever, but it is wise you don´t say it now because of your quite young age. Tell them when you are 17 or 18. But if you do want to tell them, try to get a compromise or a solution. It is your life, but consider your age they have still control over you. Good luck