1. learn everything you can about the mechanics of her arousal. Study Tantra -- if you and your wife can attend any of Margot Anand's workshops or go to her estates for training in Northern California or France, you will discover that the possibilities are limitless for what you and your wife can experience together! Go to Margot Anand's website -- skydancing something -- and see her books and videos. Learn all about your wife's body, thoughts, and feelings. Encourage her to learn all she can about the female sexual possibilities (they are way more than we ever learned!!) since she has an infiinte capacity for orgasm -- hours of it . . . until she decides to stop. It is full-body energetic orgasm -- not the genitally-localized type which can be so disappointing and unsatisfying! It is a spiritual experience. It is not solely about lust, hormones, flesh and friction. It is about something like altered states of consciousness and experience. There is no end to learning, and no pressure either. There are also many other certified teachers of tantra who have integrity. Avoid those who do not. Research on the internet. There is a woman in Canada named Francesca Blackenstock, or Blackstock, who has also become a certified Tantra teacher, and she is a good resource. Also Kim Walker in Houston, Texas. Do not use a formulaic approach with your wife -- make sure she cannot tell what will happen next. Men tend to think if something works, then stick with it, but that kills desire in women!! Men may like variety in visual images, and women want the same partner (since one partner can learn all about this woman's preferences and turn-offs) who will then provide variety in his approach. Good luck, and she is very lucky to have a man who will make this a priority in their relationship. Women do not lose sexual interest as they age -- it increases when they have a partner who has trained himself with her to be an expert on her!

leave little notes around for her to find, text her when she,s out saying what you,d like to do to her that evening, buy some sexy underwear for both of you, set the scene, satin sheets etc, rose petals on pillow, cook for her, suprise her at work delivery of flowers with a message.

Act as if u ave just met her again, remember the 1st month of ur relationship, act like it was when u were back then, buy hers flowers out of the blue, tel her how much u luv her, listen to her, giv plenty of eye contact & lots of compliments on both her personality & her body, woman luv dat. When ur alone, dnt be afraid to just grab her & kiss her

love yourself...and express it

I wish I could help. But if there was a sure formula, then this would be a much happier place to live

Put her on a pedestal and put her needs first.

1. Tell her she is beautiful and that you love her - EVERYDAY! 2. Touch each other at least five times a day (no grab ass - hand holding, touching on the small of the back, etc0 3. It is all foreplay. 4. Be passionate about something in your life (as well as her)- she wants you to be her hero, to desire you and to be desired

If it were me, I would definately go with the romantic approach.

Start by being romantic, in doors and out. Do romantic things, like sunset picnics, strolls down the trails, having a cup of coffee and a dessert to share at a cafe in the evening, with one hand under the table, and watching pornos together. Hope that helped

First, totally ignore any suggestions to involve any new partners in your sex life. If you want that, do you wife a huge favor and divorce her and free her. If you need another partner to make you feel sexually aroused they you don't need to humiliate your wife with your indescretions. If you want to improve things as you stated, try asking her what SHE would like, that might get things rolling that you might never have expected. Consideration of your partners needs as well as yours is incredibley important.