y do u think tht it is bad??ths is ur rights to say NO...no 1 can stop ur own rights...y dun u talk abt it to ur husband??whtz d point of forcing urself into sex life??sex is a way to express love...not lust...so thr's no harm to sit n talk abt ths to ur partner..n remember tht u r not getting bored or anything in ur married life...juz tht u need some time...cheerz

take some ectasy watch some porn and get freaky

May be it is just a phaze, where you don't feel as much like sex as you used to. May be your sex life needs spicing up and you are just getting bored with the same old routine. Would it be worth discussing this with your husband? Also, if you feel that you need a change of air to get your marriage back together, then why not do exactely that? I always find that a change of scene does wonders for both my relationship and my (and my partners) sex drive. A little holiday or at least a weekend away might be exactely what you need. I don't think that you can judge your entire life by a simple change in sex drive though. For how long have you been married? I am sure you and your husband have gone through worse things than this together.