What if a guy is obviously aroused by women and straight porn. but likes to have anal penetration (just with a finger) and hangs out a lot and even lies about being at work to do so with his buddy, who is married to a very timid women, is this weird? He is defensive of this friendship and this friend, and yes, i am vocal about not liking this guy. he's paid for tools, liquor, etc...for him before. Are these indications that he could be gay, having a gay fling, doing a threesome thing, or is this just two buds hanging out and how he prefers to be pleased is unrelated to men? Please reply. should i be concerned